In the article “Attachment: what works” states, Children’s behavior tells us whether they are experiencing secure attachments or insecure attachment. Their actions tell us what they think about themselves, others, and relationships. If a child has few positive relationships in early childhood or has had a bad start due to problems with the primary-care giving experiences of infancy, this child is at risk for a host of problems. In a very real sense, the glue of normal human interactions is gone. A child with poor attachment capacity is much harder to "shape" and teach. This child will feel little pleasure from the teacher's smile or approving words. And the child does not feel bad disappointing, angering, or upsetting a parent or teacher. Without the capacity to use human interactions to "reward" and "redirect," the teacher and parent often are confused and frustrated in their challenges to promote appropriate social behavior. In severe cases, the child with poor attachment
In the article “Attachment: what works” states, Children’s behavior tells us whether they are experiencing secure attachments or insecure attachment. Their actions tell us what they think about themselves, others, and relationships. If a child has few positive relationships in early childhood or has had a bad start due to problems with the primary-care giving experiences of infancy, this child is at risk for a host of problems. In a very real sense, the glue of normal human interactions is gone. A child with poor attachment capacity is much harder to "shape" and teach. This child will feel little pleasure from the teacher's smile or approving words. And the child does not feel bad disappointing, angering, or upsetting a parent or teacher. Without the capacity to use human interactions to "reward" and "redirect," the teacher and parent often are confused and frustrated in their challenges to promote appropriate social behavior. In severe cases, the child with poor attachment