264). I had always had an inkling of how I felt about women, but it was never something I had the need to recognize until high school. Even then, it was half through high school when I realized that I am bisexual. I took hours figuring out exactly what that meant and if it was an accurate term for me. I learned that there have been changes to the term over the years because of the recognition of different genders. In the sociology textbook, bisexuality is the attraction to both genders (p. 264). In today’s terms, bisexual means attraction to the same and different genders. This is because of the different genders that have been coined over the last decade or two and saying that bisexuality is only male or female is very exclusionary and has been called problematic before it was changed in recent years. It didn’t take me long to realize the harmful views many people had about bisexual people. These harmful thoughts, which could also be called biphobic, come from not only heterosexual people, but the gay community as well, surprisingly enough. Many people, I’ve noticed, can’t handle the concept of people like more than one gender. People have used the stereotypes that bisexuals are greedy, cheaters, sexually deviant people. Stereotyping is the judgement of others based in preconceived generalizations about groups or
264). I had always had an inkling of how I felt about women, but it was never something I had the need to recognize until high school. Even then, it was half through high school when I realized that I am bisexual. I took hours figuring out exactly what that meant and if it was an accurate term for me. I learned that there have been changes to the term over the years because of the recognition of different genders. In the sociology textbook, bisexuality is the attraction to both genders (p. 264). In today’s terms, bisexual means attraction to the same and different genders. This is because of the different genders that have been coined over the last decade or two and saying that bisexuality is only male or female is very exclusionary and has been called problematic before it was changed in recent years. It didn’t take me long to realize the harmful views many people had about bisexual people. These harmful thoughts, which could also be called biphobic, come from not only heterosexual people, but the gay community as well, surprisingly enough. Many people, I’ve noticed, can’t handle the concept of people like more than one gender. People have used the stereotypes that bisexuals are greedy, cheaters, sexually deviant people. Stereotyping is the judgement of others based in preconceived generalizations about groups or