To make things worse, they are not allowed to question it. As he put it they could get killed in his home country for questioning him. It is scary to think that their father has that much control. I know I said in the first question that my father was very controlling and abusive, but I cannot imagine being restricted as much as these women are. Unfortunately, women are not valued in his culture. Much like Bonita, on page 158, when they had their fourth daughter he was disappointed that he had “yet another girl.” For men especially, having multiple daughters seems to have this reoccurring theme of disappointment. I know my father was upset that he has two daughters and only one son. Given these circumstances, there are clearly still stereotypes that having a boy is more beneficial than having a girl which contradicts what I said about being a woman in America today. There is nothing empowering about knowing that your father would have preferred a son, or being limited by your cultural practices in a society that is making progress. But like I stated before, there is always more to be
To make things worse, they are not allowed to question it. As he put it they could get killed in his home country for questioning him. It is scary to think that their father has that much control. I know I said in the first question that my father was very controlling and abusive, but I cannot imagine being restricted as much as these women are. Unfortunately, women are not valued in his culture. Much like Bonita, on page 158, when they had their fourth daughter he was disappointed that he had “yet another girl.” For men especially, having multiple daughters seems to have this reoccurring theme of disappointment. I know my father was upset that he has two daughters and only one son. Given these circumstances, there are clearly still stereotypes that having a boy is more beneficial than having a girl which contradicts what I said about being a woman in America today. There is nothing empowering about knowing that your father would have preferred a son, or being limited by your cultural practices in a society that is making progress. But like I stated before, there is always more to be