A relationship is meant for two people only, but some can’t seem to count. In today’s society, there are more people being unfaithful to their mate everyday as if they were never committed to them, and that is just selfish. Cheating does not only affect someone emotionally, but also physically. The pain after a breakup from cheating can make a person have a negative outlook about being in a committed relationship, and this can also stop them from being happy with someone who can not only be a good candidate for them, but also faithful and loyal to them. When I felt like cheating, I would always talk with my dad. He always said, “If you are unhappy, leave that person completely alone, done cheat on them”. (B. Robinson) He was …show more content…
The third reason cheating is selfish is because a person doesn’t realize the mental state that they put people through when they cheat on them. They sometimes think about their mate’s feelings, but in most cases they continue pleasing themselves. They think one sided, and put their feelings in their back pockets. Cheating can harm a person’s outlook on a relationship in the future, which is not fair for the next eligible person. They can end up depressed: which can take away from acting upon their daily chores, job, being a parent, and being able to cope with life. Some people take cheating very hard, and they end up sick, not wanting to eat, or eating more than usual to hide the pain. This can affect their appearance, the outlook they have about themselves, and the outlook their peers have on them as well. When someone has to go through being cheated on, it’s hard dealing with everything that they are use to dealing with. The person who is cheating may feel like it doesn’t have anything to do with them, but it does. People will look at them differently, and make potential mates not be interested in them as well. A person’s sanity is extremely important in relationships, so it’s important to think how much damage a person can be harming someone all because they want to cheat with the next person, for