Young girls do not want to get married as marriage means that a girl will have to take on more responsibility. Marriage is more about the social and economic benefits than about love and finding a “soul mate”. Therefore, all of the pressures of finding a perfect mate based on more emotional connections is dismissed. A main way to determine whether or not someone will be a good mate is by their dancing abilities. If someone is a bad dancer, they are singled out and viewed as a person who will not make a suitable. However, a person who is a proficient dancer, regardless of their other characteristics, will be viewed as a more attractive mate. As Mead points out, “The strong emphasis upon dancing does not discriminate against the physically defective…” (Mead 84). No matter what the physically abilities of a person are, if they can exhibit coordination when they dance, they are viewed as
Young girls do not want to get married as marriage means that a girl will have to take on more responsibility. Marriage is more about the social and economic benefits than about love and finding a “soul mate”. Therefore, all of the pressures of finding a perfect mate based on more emotional connections is dismissed. A main way to determine whether or not someone will be a good mate is by their dancing abilities. If someone is a bad dancer, they are singled out and viewed as a person who will not make a suitable. However, a person who is a proficient dancer, regardless of their other characteristics, will be viewed as a more attractive mate. As Mead points out, “The strong emphasis upon dancing does not discriminate against the physically defective…” (Mead 84). No matter what the physically abilities of a person are, if they can exhibit coordination when they dance, they are viewed as