Baba and Amir have two very different personalities. Throughout the book, Amir is whom the readers feel compassion for. He's always gets bullied and Baba doesn’t show him the love that he should. Baba is considered a hero and a leader. Compared to Baba, Amir is weak. He couldn’t stand up for himself. Amir likes poetry…
Babas lack of love and affection towards Amir has proven to change Amir into a boy that is constantly in search for his fathers love. Amirs best friend,” Hassan” is always there to protect him when he gets into fights because he is too timid to stand up for himself. Baba is reluctant to praise Amir because he feels as Amir lacks courage and is a coward in many situations. For example; when Assef was disturbing Amir, Hassan had to take out his slingshot and threaten Assef to leave at once because Amir was too scared to do anything about it in that situation. “A boy who won’t stand up for himself becomes a man who can’t stand up to anything.”…
He becomes aware of Baba’s betrayal to Ali, recognizing that his father and he were very much the same and the way he saw Baba as a kid was a false perception of his father. Amir realizes that betrayal is an evil thing and will haunt one until redemption is reached, like it once did with Baba, and now himself. Baba, however, did not have to be too hard on himself, for he tried to redeem himself throughout his entire life, although he made an immense mistake and had an affair with Ali’s wife, resulting in the birth of Hassan, Baba was sincerely sorry and was an honorable man who acknowledged his wrongdoing. Amir’s father was a prime example of a man who was worthy and honorable, he made a mistake, but an honorable man has several…
Amir resembles Baba because he too takes up redemption for the awful things he did. He understands the great danger Sohrab is in. He risks his life to help Sohrab; this shows loyalty to Hassan. Even though Sohrab is not Hassan sa his son shows that Amir is loyal to him. He would do anything for Hassan to make up for his childhood. After finding Sohrab, Amir comes face to face with Assef, Hassan's rapist. “Another rib snapped, this time lower. What was so funny was that, for the first time since the winter of 1975, I felt at peace. I laughed because I saw that, in some hidden nook in the corner of my mind, I’d even been looking forward to this… My body was broken – just how badly I wouldn’t find out until later – but I felt healed” (Hosseini 289) This scene depicts the acceptance that Amir finally faces. He starts coming to terms with his past because he feels at peace over the fact that he is finally getting justice for Hassan. That he is brave enough not to run away just as Hassan would stay to fight. Amir sacrifices everything for Sohrab just as Hassan did for him once. Amir finally shows the love for Hassan that was given to…
Firstly, throughout the whole novel, the story is always linked with the relationship between Amir and Hassan who is the servant of Amir. Hassan is a person who has brave and positive character, but Amir’s character stand on the opposite side of Hassan, which is cowardice. Amir shows the feeling that he is jealous of Hassan…
Growing up without a mother really caused Amir to look up to his father. Amir tried to make his father proud in everything he would do whether it was writing stories in his adulthood or fighting kites in his childhood. When Baba passes Amir wondered, "Baba couldn't show me the way anymore; I'd have to find it on my own" (Hosseini 174). Baba was a man of great honor and in Amir's eyes he seemed to make little to no mistakes. Because of his high amount of respect for his father, Amir feels as though he should right his wrongs with Hassan because he knew that Baba loved and truly cared for Hassan. When Hassan and his father, Ali, left it devastated Baba. As Baba mourns their departure Amir states that he "... saw Baba do something I had never seen him do before: He cried" (Hosseini 107). Baba never showed emotion. For Baba to breakdown and actually cry at the fact that Hassan and Ali are gone conveys that he loves and cares for them both. Amir experiencing this display of emotion by his strong father influences him to help Hassan out in any way he…
It is Baba’s choice that set the story of Amir and Hasan into motion. His brief moment of infidelity and the fact he was never able to fully claim his illegitimate son led to a chronicle of events that defined Amir. However, it was not only this choice that came to affect the people around him. The way he raised Amir under the constant pressure of being someone he was not, ultimately led for his son to believe he needed to prove his worth. During the kite contest Amir confesses that he needs to “Show [Baba] once and for all that his son was worthy” (56), showcasing a boy who has the incessant need to prove his self-worth. Despite this Baba never truly accepted his son as he was, and even confessed that Amir is “A boy who won’t stand up for himself” (22). Throughout the majority of his life, Baba tried his best to shape Amir into the son he designed. Just like how he bends the world into his liking Baba sought to mold Amir to be just like him. In the end, however, it was revealed that he was merely a man with a “tortured soul” (301), who saw redemption in the marks he would leave the…
Amir, is the central character and is shaped both in character and intellect by power. He is privileged and wealthy, but also steeped in jealousy and cowardice. He is selfish and guilty of abhorrent behaviors. The one positive strength Amir has is his friendship with Hassan. Considered best friends this is a friendship that is generally one-sided with Hassan showing the loyalty and trust. There is an ongoing conflict for this friendship because Amir shares paternal heritage with Hassan. Hassan was born into servitude and thus Baba, the boys’ father, cannot lay claim to Hassan’s heritage. The Afghan traditions and culture pose a conflict for Baba regarding Hassan. Hassan for his part is loyal, forgiving, and an all-around pleasant person to be with. The two boys are drawn to each other naturally. Hassan is the family servant and never wavers in his loyalty to the family even with the knowledge that he should be considered part of it. At the same time, Baba struggles with his own morals and the rigid Afghani traditions. He is proud and determined but also emotionally detached from Amir. Amir feels the detachment deeply and constantly strives to receive Baba’s affection.…
In the Kite Runner, there are several comparisons that can be made between Baba and Ali and Amir and Hassan. Their relationships had similarities and differences that were equally significant. Ali and Baba grew up as childhood playmates, just the same way Amir and Hassan did. Since Ali is a Hazara, and Baba is a Pashtun, there was always an invisible barrier between them and Baba was in a way more in charge of their relationship. This applies to Hassan and Amir as well because of the same tribal backgrounds, and the main difference is just that they grew up a generation later.…
Although it is a happy time, by the end of the chapter you are lost in emotions with the death of Baba, Amir's beloved father. This violence shapes the book and carries a depth in it. For Amir, he grows up with violence all around him, and throughout the book, you see how he develops the ability to stand up for himself. Which was something Baba was “ashamed” of him for.…
Baba and Amir lived in the same house. Amir said “Baba and I lived in the same house but in different spheres of existences” (Hosseini 49). He’s saying that he does not get along with his father, like any other father and son relationship. They both have different characteristics. Amir feels like Baba has no affection of any sort. He has said that he will do anything to impress his father.…
I understand why he behaved the way he did because his father did not love him the way he needed to be loved. Hassan had a father who gave him love, so Amir was jealous. In Amir’s eyes, it was only fair that he have everything else if he could not have his father’s love. Amir became envious of anything that Hassan could do better such as understanding riddles faster or skipping stones further. Baba is someone with perseverance that drives him whenever anyone says he can’t do something. Baba wants to encourage a drive for success and accomplishment in his son. He does this by setting an example for Amir in throwing lavish parties for everyone and helps those less fortunate. Baba wants to see Amir stand up for something. Baba keeps a distance between himself and Amir because he is angry at Amir for his wife dying and sees Amir as a timid pathetic replacement. Hassan is extremely devoted to Amir and protects him whenever it's needed. Amir treats Hassan like a punching bag. Ali is a gentle, patient, and loving father. He’s never harsh and is a man with a happy disposition even in the cruelest of times. Ali is grateful for everything he has and teaches Hassan to be the…
How baba sees amir: Amir lived his life with one main goal, to impress his father, Baba. He grows up seeing the great man his father is, from building orphanages to standing up for a woman on the verge of being raped. Amir struggles through life trying to be as great as his father. After overhearing A private conversation between baba and his friend Rhamin Khan Amir is haunted with the knowledge that his father doesn’t think Amir will ever stand up for anything. Baba’s words are proven true to Amir after he stands behind a wall watching his best friend Hassan being raped.…
Although Baba and Ali grew up together, they grow to be very distinct people. Baba is a respected Afghan businessman who constantly gives to the community. Baba also stood up for himself and others when he felt that something was unjustified. Ali on the other hand is very reserved and doesn’t do anything when people make fun of him and call him, “Babalu.” The relationships both men have with their sons are also very distinct. Baba never shows any affection toward Amir because he wants Amir to be someone who he can be proud of. Baba has certain expectations of Amir that aren’t realistic; this makes Amir try to become someone he’s not. On the other hand, Ali and Hassan’s relationship is the opposite to that of Baba and Amir. Although Hassan is actually Baba’s son, Ali understands Hassan in a way that Baba never does because Ali is a Hazzara servant which Hassan is as well. Social Status prevents Baba from treating Hassan like the son he always wanted. But social status allows Ali to treat Hassan like a son even though they are unrelated.…
Initially, Amir is desperate for Baba’s approval due to Baba’s lack of empathy and willingness to accept Amir. “Most days I worshiped Baba with an intensity approaching the religious.” (Page 32) Amir’s desperation to win over Baba’s approval drives most of his actions throughout his childhood. But even from the start, “If [Baba] hadn’t seen the doctor pull [Amir] out of [his] wife with [his] own eyes, [Baba would] never believe [Amir is Baba’s] son.” (Page 23) Baba expected Amir to become like himself - athletic, brave, and able to stand up for himself and what is right. But when Amir shows cowardice and takes a literary interest, Baba feels no emotion bond with his son, which makes him distant to Amir. Amir feels that Baba is withdrawn from him which makes Amir want Baba’s approval. Amir attempts to achieve it by any means necessary. This is shown in the scene where Amir and Hassan are skipping stones and when Hassan manages to skip his stone 8 times whereas Amir could only do 5. Amir is jealous of Hassan for his ability to get Baba’s approval, partly due to the fact that Hassan possesses the qualities Baba wants Amir to and partly because Hassan is Baba’s son. Amir sees the relationship between Hassan and Baba and harbors a secret resentment towards Hassan and sometimes takes this lack of relationship with Baba out on Hassan. Baba said, “A boy who can’t stand up for himself becomes a man who can’t stand up for anything.” (Page…