As a human being, I feel that there are a multitude of facets that make up my identity. They all conincide with oneanother to define who I am. In class we considered 24 different categories alone. However, some of those categories are more salient to me personally than others. When I consider my identity I first think of categories on the personal identity wheel as those are the aspects of myself I value most. I think of my traits and my interests. I have more …show more content…
I constantly am affected by socialization as a female, and I am often worrying or pondering what it means to be asexual in this world. As Tatum suggests in “The Complexity of Identity: Who Am I?”, I recognize the aspects of my identity that I am most disadvantaged in. However, this tendency highlights an important caveat in my identity. While I deem that gender and sexual orientation as salient to me personally, that does not diminish the effects of my other identities on who I am and how the world interacts with me. For example, I do not often consider my race as a white person when I think of my identity but that does not lessen the effect of race on how I see myself and how the world sees me (Tatuam). So while I deem gender and sexual orientation as salient to my identity, it does not truly diminish other aspects of my identity. I am the sum of all of my parts. whether or not I recognize this all the time or not, it is an imperative thing to consider as I explore my interactions with the world and I how I view …show more content…
I constantly notice sexism, and is constantly affects how I interact with others as I must conform to cultural power structure. I sometimes worry if I am being too much of a burden, or other things that socialized me to consider things that men don’t have to. I notice the emphasis on heterosexual relationships in our society. I find myself in awkward social situations when relationships are being discussed or other students are participating in normal “hookup” activities because I know I can’t relate or interact in a normal way. I am forced to adjust how I interact with the world based on the norms of male and