Conflict Is Inevitable In The Vietnam War

Conflict is inevitable and conventional in our everyday day. Everyone would have encountered some form of conflict, either internal or external sometime in their life. By having better understanding of the factors that contribute to conflict and their impact on each of the parties, we are in a better position to intervene earlier and put in place more effective intervention strategies.

Conflict is inevitable because each individual is different. Each of us has our own mindset, moral believe, ethics and more. In a working environment, it is extremely difficult for everyone to agree your idea all at once. Through discussion, argument and negotiation, eventually you may reach a compromising state where most people are satisfied.

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When some individuals suffer negative effects from conflict such as scars or psychological trauma, they may often blame or grumble why it has happened to them. Surely, this will not only make individuals' mind fill with negativity but also those surrounding them. Therefore, if individuals learnt to let go and forgive, they may feel a sense of closure. During the Vietnam War, Nick Ut, a famous war photographer took a significant shot of Kim Phuc at the time aged 9, running naked with her back on fire away from the town which had been bombed by Americans. The photograph depicts the consequences of war on innocent civilians like Kim Phuc. The fire on her back has left her skin permanently damaged which often requires specialist massage. Despite having 'many scars on [her] body and severe pain most days,' she still express her forgiveness to the American who delivered the order to drop the bomb, which as a result made '[her] heart is cleansed'. Phuc is a great example to demonstrate the power of love and how it can release an individual from sorrow and pain. 'Forgiveness made me free from hatred' shows that human kindness can change a person's view towards their physical and mental damages from the conflict. It is quite difficult for a person without a religion to shows forgiveness to such great extent. However, believing the presence of God, the power of forgiveness is
However forgiveness is usually not people think of when they are enraged. Forgiveness is the act of compassionately releasing the desire to punish someone or yourself for an offence. It’s a state of grace, nothing you can force or pretend. Robert Rules, he is the father of Linda Rule, a sixteen year-old girl who was a victim of the most prolific serial killer in America, Gary Ridgway. Understandably, the suffering and anguish of those who lost loved ones was clearly on display, as one family member after another wished a painful death on Ridgway. The rape and murder of a child is an event of such horrific magnitude and power that it would surely shatter any parent, leaving them broken, bitter, and empty with a life in ruins. No many of us will be able to forgive the killer who has taken our loved one's life. However, Rule chooses to forgive Ridgway because of god's word, 'what I believe and that is what god says to do and that is forgive, you are forgiven sir.' The power of forgiveness not only release us from anger but also [feeling about the killer] . The act of forgiving can come only from the love we feel for all people regardless of race or culture, never forgetting that we are at times the most imperfect of all. This helps people to release their hatred against others and be a happier