Smacking children can cause mental health problems for them such as depression and violent behaviour. Children will come to believe that problems can be resolved by hitting other people. Extensive research data supports a direct correlation between corporal punishment during childhood and aggressive behaviour in the teenage and adult years. It is natural that children learn attitudes and behaviours through observation of their parents’ actions. Therefore, it is the responsibility of parents to set a good example, and corporal punishment is not the way to do that. If parents physically punish their children when they aren’t behaving well, children will believe that it is okay to hurt other people. Punishment distracts the child from learning how to resolve conflict in an effective and humane way. As the educator John Holt wrote, “When we make a child afraid, we stop learning dead in its tracks.” They will believe that it solves dilemmas in the appropriate way. But when does it cross the line to child abuse? While abusing a child, you have no control over your emotions and you do severe damage. Corporal punishment must be controlled and no long affecting and severe damage should be done.
There are many more effective ways to discipline children than corporal punishment. For instance, when children say a ‘bad word’; try reaching for the dictionary not the wooden spoon. The dictionary triggers interest in learning while the soap triggers anger and fear. Talking calmly and using words instead of actions