Couples counseling in therapy helps couples of all types recognize and resolve conflicts while helping the couple improve their relationships. Through marriage counseling, one can make thoughtful decisions about rebuilding their relationship or going their separate ways. This paper will expound on my experience with counseling a couple. I was excited and scared at the same time. In addition to being apprehensive about remembering the skills and theories learned in class Counseling, an individual is so much different than counseling a couple. One goal was to ensure that there was never an unbalance in the session and that each individuals’ viewpoints were being communicated. Confidentiality was also addressed to make certain …show more content…
My rational behind my chosen theory of Emotionally Focused Couple Therapy is that it is powerful with working with couples that still have an emotional investment in their relationship. With using Emotionally Focused Couple Therapy, one must direct the conversation toward developing and achieving the couple's vision of solutions. Ultimately, the open and closed questions help to clarify those solutions and the means of achieving them. These are the reasons in which, I chose this theory and felt accomplished using these …show more content…
I was very nonjudgmental about the couple’s views on their issues. I did not experience any countertransference and, I was aware of my values. During the session, I made sure that equal attention and support were provided to each person. I used my skills of reframing, active listening, summarizing, clarification, and nonverbal communication during the entire session. My strengths were being genuine and empathetic in the session. However, there is always room for improvement in all areas. I sometimes think my brain is computing information faster the movement of my mouth to express my train of thought. I must slow the pace of my verbiage to avoid the medical condition called ankyloglossia. Moreover, this was a great learning experience for me. It helped me to gain more knowledge about different areas of the counseling to explore as I enter my