Preview

Custody and Child Support Paper

Powerful Essays
Open Document
Open Document
1625 Words
Grammar
Grammar
Plagiarism
Plagiarism
Writing
Writing
Score
Score
Custody and Child Support Paper
Custody and Child Support Argument

A major issue we currently face in not only in my community of North Carolina but as a nation as a whole is the courts unjustified rulings in custody, child support, and health insurance. Through personal experiences and research, I have found that the courts favor mothers 9 out of 10 times regardless of their ability to properly care and support their children. The amount of child support differs for fathers and mothers and that the courts mandate fathers to put and keep health insurance on their children where the mothers are almost never not mandated to. In the next few paragraphs, I will highlight these key points in the following to support my claims as well as include some personal experiences. Statistically, 95 percent of mothers receive custody of their children. Though the nation still strives for equality, the courts seem to be still biased and feel that the children are better off with their mothers over their fathers. Only 3 out of every 20 fathers in the state of North Carolina has received custody of their children and of those fathers fortunate enough to have beat the system, only 3% of them will receive child support from the non-custodial mother which amounts to 9 out of every 2,000.
In 2002, William Hill of Smithfield, NC, a family friend, finally gained custody of his children after going to court multiple times for custody. His children's mother dropped them off one night at his doorstep and vanished. She finally called about one year later demanding the kids back. Mr. Hill refused to give her the children and filed for full custody after learning that she was on drugs and was on the run from her drug dealer boyfriend. When the case was brought in front of the court, they ruled in favor of the mother the first two times feeling that given the ability to be a mother would help rehabilitate her and help to keep her clean and away from drugs. Mr. Hill was not happy with the ruling and after battling

You May Also Find These Documents Helpful

  • Satisfactory Essays

    Facts: Mary Jo was born to her biological mother Martha Spinks. Martha had been battling a tough drug addiction, and when Mary Jo was just four years old, Martha was sent to prison. The Spinks' neighbors, Stephen and Melinda Parker had decided to adopt Mary Jo and would raise her. Upon moving in with the Parkers, Mary Jo took their last name, and was now Mary Jo Parker. Mary Jo was the oldest of the Parker's children, they later had 2 biological children. Throughout her life, Mary Jo was enrolled in school as the Parker's child, and changed the name on her Social Security Card as Mary Jo Parker. She resided with the Parkers from age four, until eighteen when she moved away to college. The Spinks took it upon themselves to pay for Mary Jo's education. Throughout her entire life the Spinks referred to Mary Jo as one of their three children and Mary Jo referred to them as her parents and referred to their other two children as her siblings. In 2005, Stephen Park became ill. Mary Jo was never formally/legally adopted by Mr. and Mrs. Spinks. In 2007 Mr. Parker died. When he died he left his entire estate to his wife. In his obituary, it was stated that he had three children. In 2013, Melinda died without a will. Her other two children feel that they are entitled to half of her estate. Mary Jo Spinks is seeking her rights to the estate of Melinda Parker regarding her will.…

    • 311 Words
    • 1 Page
    Satisfactory Essays
  • Satisfactory Essays

    An article by Cathy Meyer entitled, ‘Dispelling the Myth of Gender Bias in the Family Court System’ is a brief examination and interpretation of how the Family Court System is being gender bias towards mothers, and believes that it is the father who is less incorporated in the child’s life. The Family Court System has been known for being prejudice when regarding mothers and children. Meyer’s commentary response to the Family Court System was her agreeing and providing verification along with statistics on why she agrees with their method. However, Meyer as a divorce coach only sees a partial part of this argument and does not view this in a divorced father’s perspective.…

    • 170 Words
    • 1 Page
    Satisfactory Essays
  • Satisfactory Essays

    For this project, I would like to discuss the case of Planned Parenthood of Southeastern Pennsylvania v. Casey in 1992. This case was paramount in changing the way our country handles abortions. I think this topic will be very interesting and informative about how increasingly stringent abortion policies have affected the accessibility of abortions in this country for women. Additionally, it would be important to understand the implication this case had on the topic of women’s’ reproductive rights. First, I found this case interesting because before the results of this case were implemented, abortion rates in the United States were slowly on the rise. Right after this case allowed states to regulate abortion policies, the amount of abortions…

    • 353 Words
    • 2 Pages
    Satisfactory Essays
  • Good Essays

    My mother was a single mom who had three kids including myself. Granted, I got lucky because my dad was very involved and gave me everything I needed. So I never went through a time in my life where this Deadbeat Parent Act pertained to me or my parents. However, I have seen my sisters and friends go through situations where they don’t get help from the father or their children. I have witnessed my friends go to court over their children’s dads not paying child support. Those dads were punished by their taxes going to their child’s mom and not them. Since they owed so much in child support, they didn’t see a dime of their taxes this year. One thing I didn’t agree with in this article is when they decide to suspended drivers license. I think that a driver license is a luxury to have and should be taken away be the courts when you do something wrong but I think it makes it harder for that person to go to his or her job. If that parent can’t get to work, how are they going to pay child support? I think they could find a better way to punish a parent. I think the court should court order them to work 30-40 hours a week and if they don’t, they get jail time. That wouldn’t give a parent the excuse as to why they couldn’t pay that week. This punishment would make people want to work, keep busy, and stay out of trouble. I also didn’t agree with was when the parent…

    • 681 Words
    • 3 Pages
    Good Essays
  • Better Essays

    Single parents are becoming the norm these days and the government has stepped in to assist these custodial parents to make things fair. It takes two people to make a child so it seems only fair that two people support the child financially, right? I am a single mother. My daughter’s father, Donnie, and I were never married and weren’t together at the time of her birth. He wasn’t around to sign the birth certificate so I had to go through DFS to fill paperwork out to get support payments from him after our daughter (Nathalia) was born. When I filled out the CSE (Child Support Enforcement) paperwork the case was being handled by a caseworker in Jefferson City, MO. I gave the caseworker Donnie’s address about four months after our daughter’s birth. Nothing was done and I assumed they were having trouble getting hold of him. When Nathalia was five years old my case was moved to a caseworker in Columbia who called and got the information from me again and I received paternity paperwork within the month. The way it works is the noncustodial parent only has to pay from the time the paperwork showing paternity was sent. I had tried to contact Nathalia’s father to start visitation. He came around for one hour a week for about two months then just stopped. He paid the arrearage for support payments after facing criminal charges for non-payment of support payments, and being threatened with a year in jail if the support was not paid. I feel no sympathy. Now he is back to not making the payments. On the other hand I have a friend (Jessica, fictional name) who has a five year old daughter (Hannah, fictional name) whose father has been in and out of jail for child support non-payment. He has a relationship with Hannah and has care of her fifty percent of the time. The government wants to put him back in jail for arrearage on Hannah and two of his other…

    • 2077 Words
    • 9 Pages
    Better Essays
  • Satisfactory Essays

    The legislation addressing Rape Survivor Child Custody Act is of paramount interest to me because I am a woman and unfortunately in the future this bill could apply to me or someone I love. This issue directly impacts me and any other woman in the United States.…

    • 200 Words
    • 1 Page
    Satisfactory Essays
  • Good Essays

    Yolanda Case Study

    • 475 Words
    • 2 Pages

    Our young mother had a defiant attitude problem, when we first met her after taking on this case. The 17-year old mother of this infant child had a “big chip on her shoulder.” Yolanda believed that she had certain “rights in America,” such as, her right to have free sex, her right to do drugs, her right to a free attorney, and her…

    • 475 Words
    • 2 Pages
    Good Essays
  • Good Essays

    It takes two people to have a child, and when the relationship between the parents does not work, is when child support comes in. Child support is supposed to be money to help support the child. When the parent ordered to pay, or the non-custodial parent, does not pay, it only punishes the child. This is making it harder for the one raising the child, or the custodial parent. When the non-custodial parent falls behind on payments, there are supposed to be consequences. Well, that is not happening. I know several people, including myself, who do not receive a dime in child support and the other parent is walking around free from punishment. The law needs to be enforced, so that the children can have the money that they deserve. This will also keep the custodial parent from struggling to not only provide the necessities, but to also fulfill the desires of the child. Harsher enforcement measures will reduce the number of non-payers.…

    • 1636 Words
    • 7 Pages
    Good Essays
  • Satisfactory Essays

    I called the constituent, he said his girlfriend kick him out of her house, they are not legally married but she is going to have a baby in July. When he was packing his belongings, he found a DCS document which apparently his girlfriend file for a child support. He was concern that she is going to file for a legal custody.…

    • 144 Words
    • 1 Page
    Satisfactory Essays
  • Satisfactory Essays

    Divorce Separation Paper

    • 415 Words
    • 2 Pages

    Before finalizing a divorce, it is common for states to have laws regarding a separation period. This is a time where both spouses decide if they want to actually follow through with the divorce, or try to work things out. In order to prevent delays in divorce proceedings, be sure to know the potential separation requirements.…

    • 415 Words
    • 2 Pages
    Satisfactory Essays
  • Good Essays

    As a child, they don’t understand all the talk about monthly payments and child support because that is between the parents. The child only recognizes that one parent isn’t in the home every day and the other is. They want to spend as much time with BOTH parents. When the noncustodial parent doesn’t open that door, then the child feels something is missing. I want to address some of the psychological thoughts that go through the child’s mind and how they feel they should compensate for that…

    • 434 Words
    • 2 Pages
    Good Essays
  • Good Essays

    Abortion Debate

    • 579 Words
    • 2 Pages

    Should the woman have the consent of the baby’s father to get an abortion? First affirmative In order for a woman to be able to get an abortion, she should first have to get the father of the babies consent. Fathers across the nation have been feeling this way for years, and it’s time to give them a say in what happens to the baby they helped create. For example, take New York couple David and Toni Ostreicher. Toni recently became pregnant, and wants to get an abortion. David does not want her to get one, but she does anyway, so David sues not only her, but the hospital and the doctors who preformed it. David states that the hospital and doctors had a moral obligation to tell him about the abortion. “This is a case of father’s rights—of husband’s rights” says David. This example—though extreme— is hardly the first case that questions whether fathers have any rights to stop abortion. Natives from states such as Utah, Ohio, and Indiana have all tried to pass legislation that would cause a woman to seek paternal consent. Proponents of this cause claim that a father should have a say in the baby’s future for three reasons. First of all, there is already Federal Regulation that researchers have to follow to protect fetuses. Many scientists use fetuses to study the effect AZT has on pregnant women infected with AIDS. This regulation states that in order for researchers to get government money to fund their studies, they must first get permission from both the mother, and the father of the fetus. So if father’s consent is needed when damaging fetuses in one form, why not in the other? An abortion damages a fetus just as this research does, so why does a father have say in one case, but not the other? Secondly, men have to pay child support after a baby is born—even if he and the woman are no longer in a relationship, so whether the baby is aborted or not directly affects his quality of life. The example I stated earlier, with David and Toni Ostreicher, was a case where…

    • 579 Words
    • 2 Pages
    Good Essays
  • Good Essays

    The child support system is persistently unaffected by the economic realities working people face, such as layoffs, wage cuts, work-related injuries and unemployment. According to the Urban Institute, only one-in-twenty non-custodial parents who suffers a substantial decrease in income is able to get courts to reduce their child support payments. Additionally, federal law prohibits child-support orders from being retroactively modified, no matter how mistaken or ridiculous. Even those who fell behind on their support because they had cancer or heart attacks cannot have their arrearages eliminated. The Federal Office of Child Support Enforcement data shows that two-thirds of those behind on child support earned poverty-level wages; less than four percent of the national child support debt is owed by those earning above $40,000 a year.…

    • 665 Words
    • 3 Pages
    Good Essays
  • Good Essays

    The answer, from an evolutionary psychological perspective, is that Heather instinctively knew, as do most of us, that children are more important to their mothers than to their fathers, and, as a result, their loss would be more devastating to their mothers than to their fathers. It is not difficult to find abundant evidence for the fact that mothers are more dedicated to their children than fathers. For example, when married couples with children get divorced, chances are that the children stay with the mother, not the father, especially if they are young. According to the 1992 March/April Current Population Survey in the United States, conducted by the US Census Bureau on a nationally representative sample, 86% of custodial parents are mothers. Further, many of the noncustodial fathers who have agreed to pay child support, either voluntarily or via court order, default on their commitment and become “deadbeat dads." The first national survey of the receipt of child support, conducted in 1978, reveals that less than half (49%) of women awarded child support actually received the full amount due to them, and more than a quarter (28%) of them received nothing. The percentages have remained more or less constant since. In 1991, 52% of custodial parents awarded child support received the full amount; 25% of them received nothing. So the question remains: Why are women so much more dedicated parents than men? Why…

    • 1262 Words
    • 6 Pages
    Good Essays
  • Good Essays

    Dr. SA Smythe's Analysis

    • 810 Words
    • 4 Pages

    They were not even custody of children after spartaration. Frankly, this is astonishing to me. It seems like the world just flipped because today men have a hard time getting custody of their children. Courts feel as though children should be with their mothers because women will take care of them and they gave birth to them. They feel like men are just the providers and they work too hard to be able to take care of their children. In reality, men actually end up having to work even more because now they have to pay child support even if they still see and take care of their kid. To me, both concepts are…

    • 810 Words
    • 4 Pages
    Good Essays