The beginning of Othello and Desdemona’s marriage was over before it began. Othello is a play where the marriage of Othello and Desdemona is sabotaged by a scheming best friend named Iago. First of all, readers need to realize that Othello is a man who has been …show more content…
He is insecure of his job, his life, and feels like an outsider from not being a Venetian like some of the other characters in this play. Ironically, Desdemona’s and Othello are -or they were- fairly good friends and Othello was invited into their home multiple times. When Brabantio finds out about his daughters marriage, of course he is hurt, but he feels betrayed by Othello. He assumes that his daughter must have been drugged to make her fall in love with him and Brabantio calls for the couple to explain. Keep in mind that Othello and Desdemona are deeply in love and they just got married. Both Othello and Desdemona know that her father didn’t want the marriage and he wanted to prove his worthiness by respectfully standing up to Brabantio, but he called for his wife so she could convince him that their marriage is, in fact, real. In this time period, it was considered reckless to marry for love, so the parents- in this case, Brabantio alone- tended to choose the spouse for their child. Of course Desdemona doesn’t want this, so when she says “But here’s my