Children and young people learn their attitudes from the grown-ups around them at an early age and we may all have ways of thinking and acting that may seem…
We all have our own definition of what discipline is and its appropriate use. “The word Discipline is derived from the word Disciple, which means the follower of a teacher”(Meyer). A teacher educates through examples and guidance rather than punishment. Modeling appropriate behaviors and enlightening children on natural consequences are lessons teachers will instill on their students. “We say we want to teach our children proper behavior and help them develop self-discipline. Yet instead, we have adopted strategies that are the direct opposite of teaching and instead are just clever guises of manipulation and control.” (Tsabary) Many people believe that the only way to get the response or action they expect from children is through physical discipline and threats. People who believe this to be the only answer are uneducated and inexperienced with disciplining children.…
2) Discipline teaches a child how to act.This actions should make sense to a child. It should have something to do with what he has done wrong. Discipline helps a child feel good about himself. It gives him the chance to correct his mistakes. It puts him in charge of his actions. On the other hand, punishment only tells a child that she is bad. Most of the time punishment is bad…
Discipline is when you are teaching your child based upon their mistakes. Punishment is when you make a child pay after they have done something against the rules.…
The modern era of this day and age is under constant threat from new and expanding methods of conflict that is devastating our already deteriorating society- often segregated between the rich and the poor. Due to the steady increase of communication and travel, there is a correlation with the increase amount of fighting with age old ethnic rivalries and religious strife along with disputes over territory, resources and morals. However, with the considerable advancements in technology presented over the last century, the effects and devastation are more vast and noteworthy. Prior instances being the innovation of the Maxim Machine gun in the nineteenth century that took the lives of millions of people in World War I, the bringer of the war of…
Respect is a way for human beings to harmonize as a group and on a deeper level as individuals. This is why it is so important in large groups like the Army, so that we can successfully get along and complete the missions assigned to us. When someone disrespects another it causes a rippling effect which can destroy an entire unit and their relationships necessary to act as a cohesive unit. It affects everyone, no matter their rank or position. Whether it happens personally to you or to the unit it will affect morale usually in a negative way. The only way to stop it is to ensure all soldiers remain respectful & professional at all times. All soldiers are leaders and it is our job to ensure we maintain a positive and respectful…
Discipline is to teach your child from their mistake and it’s different from punishment because punishment is when your child doesn’t abide by the rules nor does something they were told not to do.…
”Don’t Spare the rod and spoil the child.” We have all heard that before, as a child I heard it a lot. I was not the most well behaved child, so I got into plenty of trouble. My mom hated my temper tantrums. When I was little, she disciplined me, and now I am a well behaved young adult who knows right from wrong. Discipline is a way of teaching a child how to do what is right while growing up. There are multiple ways to discipline a child and make him/her behave. I feel that it is very important to begin to disciplining children when they are young so they know what is expected of them.it gives them a better sense of right and wrong while growing up once a child has reached his/her teenage years it is too late to begin the discipline process. If parents begin early, I believe that the most effective ways of disciplining children are timeout, taking away privileges, talking to the child, and, as a last resort, and spanking.…
Children cannot possibly benefit from “discipline” in the form of punishment. Simply put, punishment is disrespectful treatment of a child that will result short-term cooperation but further behavior problems long-term. No child should have to endure such negative modification methods intended to humiliate them with a goal of teaching appropriate behavior. Sadly, however, some adults think they are doing what is best for the child. But what can a child possibly learn from hearing a parent say, “If you hit your brother one more time, I'm gonna spank you!” The child interprets that message as “if I hit him, then you're going to hit me.” There is no valuable lesson…
Great and interesting post, I agree with your statement that an important and good standards are part of every cultures. To respect parents are an important aspect of parent and child relationship. But as you mentioned things have changed in the process of time. There are a lot of factors to consider in this changes i.e., the environment that we live in, peer groups, and too much exposure to television that shows violent behaviors, and not to mention the lack of time or lack of parental involvement in their children.…
When I say the outcome depends approach a person takes, I am stating that there are different types of discipline. A parent disciplining there child doesn't necessarily mean to beat them with an object, such as belts, rulers, or hangers, etc.. Discipline is also putting a child in 'time out', taking away there electronics, the tv, or anything that has a lot of value to them. As long as the discipline approach doesn't cause physical or mental damage to the child, the person is doing the right thing.…
A child’s behavior is much worse today than it was ten years ago. Children are talking back to their parents and doing what they want to do. Parents are definitely not in control like they used to be. , my opinion is that we are too quick to put blame on the situation before we look at the facts...if a child needs a pat on the behind to get they to calm down, then so be it. That does not mean the child needs to be beaten...sometimes, I think that parent needs that beaten worst. Most of the time the child is in need of your calm voice they need your attention a good attention not a bad attention. And sometimes the child just needs to be left alone. I remember when I was growing up; I wouldn't even dare to talk back...and didn't even want to think what would happen to me if I did so. I was raise to respect my elders. Say “Yes Mama”, “No Mama” or “Yes Sir” or” No Sir”. Whether someone gives you something or you asked for something; say…
From the day we are born we are bonded with that special someone you know our mother and father. They teach us the way of life things we should and should not do and always treat everyone with respect. As toddlers our minds are little sponges waiting to absorb any and everything our minds are exposed to. So from time to time we may take in the bad stuff and test it out on people, like talking to people in a rude way or demanding things in a way a child shouldn’t basically the child is mimicking the adult. That’s when the parents step in and mold there child into a well-mannered being and properly tell them how to speak to adults. Teaching the common mannerism like saying please, thank you, and excuse me makes a big difference in someone’s perception of you also that tells that person that their parents have taught them well. There is a lot more mannerism to be taught to a child but we learn these…
On the one hand, it is very popular amongst parents to have a level of expectations about their children. Mothers and fathers often have dreams of what their children will be. When those dreams do not come to fruition, disappointment is often apparent. And it is normal for one parent to expect their kid to have good manners, get good grades at school and so on. However, the parents of children that rebel often set the bar too high and most of the children cannot meet their expectations. Sometimes this insistence for the kids to be ‘the best’ at everything turns out to be rather annoying for them. That is the point where tolerance and hard-working turns to stubbornness and rebellion. By pressing the children too much, parents do not realise that in this way they kill their will to justify their expectations.…
I have been very lucky to have been raised by such a great mom. She has taught me how to be respectful, responsible, honest, grateful, and basically has made me who I am. Unfortunately, not many people in my generation have had the same wonderful opportunity. Children nowadays are very disrespectful towards adults and it really bothers me, even though I am child myself. Society is allowing children to disrespect their friends, teachers, families, and even themselves. It is sad hearing my friends talk about "having a good time" by drinking, smoking or doing drugs. I think most of this, not all of it, falls back onto the parenting and simply not disciplining their children at home and trying too much to be their friends.…