The “domestic” part doesn’t matter—violence is violence. There was a time when victims of domestic violence could be silenced, and many people didn’t pay attention to the seriousness of the situation. Their pleas fell upon deaf ears, as our society looked the other way. Nowadays that is not the case; we live in a time where victims of all ages, genders, and ethnicities have a much stronger voice. They no longer allow themselves to be denied of any help or awareness of their situation. Victims are now using their experiences to speak out to heal themselves, while strengthening others. However, even with the resources available, and the cognizance brought upon to our society, many still do not understand the extent of what victims go through, and how much they actually suffer not just during, but long after getting away from their abuser. Victims suffer mental effects from domestic violence because not only does it cause the victim physical damage from the abuse, but it also causes post-traumatic stress, anxiety and even mental instability from watching the abuse take place.…
Women who are victims of domestic violence often have multiple barriers to overcome before they choose to end the violent relationship. While in an abusive relationship, victims often don't go because they are threatened by the abuser (Ramsey, 2013). The women are often afraid of the perpetrator's retaliation if they report the abuse (Al-Natour, Qandil, & Gillespie, 2015). Women fear being killed by their abuser and harm coming to their children. Fear is the way through which abusers control their victims. Emotional control forces the victims to fear the harm that could happen to her and the people close to her. The victim will bear all the abuse to protect her children. The constant state of fear gives the victims a feeling of panic. Living in panic in the relationship often causes the victims to lose their confidence in themselves. When the victims lose their confidence, they begin to live their lives to make their abusers happy. The victims will start to neglect their needs and desires to ensure that the abuser is…
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In chapter 5 in the book “African American Families” written by Angela Hattery and Earl Smith, the authors examined different ways in which intimate partner violence is shaped by other social problems, such as employment, incarceration and health. Hattery and Smith went as far as, interviewing different couples, and examining the similarities and differences between race and ethnicity. In this chapter, Hattery and Smith broke down the different factors and triggers that cause intimate partner violence to occur. The authors make it very clear that there is no specific description of batterer; meaning that, a batterer can be male or female and not just one particular race. According to Hattery and Smith, men who were victims of psychical child abuse are twice as likely to batterer in adulthood, and if intimate partner violence took place in a household, most likely the child will develop that bad habit and repeat what they see. Men feel that a part of their masculinity traits is to be the breadwinners, and the head of the household. Therefore, when they feel that their masculinity is being threatened, they react in a way such as being abusive to their significant other because it makes them feel “in control” and having “power.”…
Domestic violence is the cause of more than one-third of emergency room visits by women and accounts for 22% of all violent crimes against women. This article describes the stress of living in an abusive relationship. By living in domestic violence it can lead to depression, anxiety disorders, substance abuse, physical problems, and can lead to suicide. Women may also be psychologically or emotionally abused through name calling; humiliation; social isolation from family, friends, and work; and deprivation of food, money, transportation, medications, and access to…
Domestic violence is “a pattern of behavior used to establish power and control over another person through fear and intimidation, often including the threat or use of violence,” according to Safe Horizon (SH, 2015). Domestic violence can occur in many different relationships, such as parent-child relationships, dating couples relationships, or even sibling relationships. The psychological consequences of domestic violence are overlooked, most of the time, by people with the speculation that the victim can always just leave their attackers. Only about half of the cases of domestic violence are actually reported to authorities, according to the Feminist Majority Foundation (FMH, 2014). Battered…
Discuss the various aspects of intimate partner violence and outline what needs to be taken into account in responding to the victim and the offender…
Imagine living a life like this woman. Jane comes home to find a dozen roses on the table. John greets her with so much affection. With one hand around her waist, he fills his other with a fist full of her hair pulling her in an intense kiss. It seems he hasn 't seen her for quite awhile. He holds her passionately close as he whispers in her ear, "I could never live without you." If someone were watching from the window, they would never guess that last night the same two people had an argument about the way she folded his laundry. They probably wouldn 't notice the amount of makeup she used to make the black eye he gave her less noticeable. She can’t help but wonder what happened. What did she do to cause someone…
Domestic Violence is a problem of epidemic proportion in the United States. It affects everyone whether they are the victim, the batterer, or a member of society. Domestic Violence comes in the way of multiple forms and has expanded outside of the husband and wife arena, as in years past to now include violence between boyfriend and girlfriend, parent and child, and violence between siblings. In some states domestic violence is defined as violence between a boyfriend and girlfriend who do not live together but do have a child in common. Domestic violence affects every community. Largely affected are the law enforcement officers who are at risk of prospective danger by responding to a domestic violence call. Domestic violence is affecting younger children in grades as low as elementary school through high school. Domestic Violence shelters are available to assist victims; however, while shelters appear to be a capacity for the most part, there is a greater concern for the underutilization of shelters and why, when shelters are available, are they not being used?…
Kernic MA et al. Behavioural problems among children whose mothers are abused by their partner. Child Abuse and Neglect, 2003, 27:1231-1246…
You might know October for the bright red orange leafs that cover the sidewalks and for the scary holiday Halloween, but October is also domestic violence awareness month. Community College of Philadelphia is proudly hosting their 2nd annual Clothesline Project to raise awareness for domestic violence victims. The Clothesline Project can be viewed in the Mint Rotunda. The Clothesline is an experience that radiates a feeling of sorrow and a call for help and has left me sadness and anger.…
Intimate partner violence (IPV) is a global public health issue that has existed for centuries, and a major problem in the United States. Intimate partner violence can be defined as “ It can affect anyone, regardless of race, gender, socio-economic status, or sexual orientation. According to , at least ten million men and women are victims of IPV( ). The fight to end this form of domestic violence is far from over, but the assistance provided by victim advocates gives survivors the support they need to move forward in their lives.…
An abused woman lives in fear, unable to predict when the next attack will come. She may become isolated from friends and family, and increasingly dependent on her abuser. In these circumstances it can be very hard to make sense of what is really happening. Over time her self-esteem may be worn down. She may start to believe her abuser’s insults. She may blame herself for the abuse, or deny that it is taking place. She may ignore it, hoping that her partner -the man she loves will change. Abused women are not weak, submissive victims. It takes huge strength to live with an abusive partner. Women have to be strong and resourceful, adapting to all kinds of coping strategies to survive each day. Abused women can have a bad impact on the way a person thinks and interacts with the world around them. The chronic exposure to domestic violence—and the stress fear resulting from this exposure—can cause not only immediate physical injury, but also mental shifts that occur as the mind attempts to process trauma or protect the body. Domestic violence affects one’s thoughts, feelings and behaviors and can significantly impact one’s mental stability. Increased anxiety, post-traumatic stress disorder and depression symptoms are commonly observed among survivors of domestic violence. The reason I wrote this paper is because I was raised in domestic violence my whole life and it has affected me so much in my social life. I became so self-centered and hated the feeling of not knowing when the next argument or fight was going to be. Being exposed to domestic violence was a traumatic experience for me, I always thought it would never end and my mom would end up in the hospital. My biggest fear was that I going to grow up and be in an abusive relationship. Having to witness my abused mom, and not able to help has changed me as a child. I felt as though I had to become an adult before I should have been. I…
A part of human nature is to form relationships with others in our society. We form these relationships to preserve ourselves and the greater good of mankind. These relationships we as humans form , are supposed to be synergistic to both parties that are involved in said relationship. Unfortunately, twenty-two percent of women and seven percent of men have been victims of intimate partner violence over the course of their lives (Seecombe,2012,pg.309). We must also take the statistical data with a grain of salt. Sadly, most cases of intimate partner violence go unreported due to people not wanting to get into what they believe to be a private matter, and embarrassment.…
Roberts, A., (2002). Handbook of Domestic Violence Intervention Strategies. New York, NY: Oxford University Press, Inc.…