.Although Boo did not speak to the children in the beginning of the novel, he has …show more content…
Aunt Alexandra shows that family is a necessary evil with her interactions with Scout. When Aunt Alexandra arrives at the Finch’s home to stay with them, Scout loathes her since she wants to change Scout and wants her to be more refined. Scout also despises her aunt since she thinks that Atticus is not raising Scout properly and offers to help her be more lady-like. Even though Scout may not realize this, Aunt Alexandra is strict towards her because she wants her to be prepared for the challenges she may face in life. Aunt Alexandra is not only trying to teach Scout to be more modest, she is teaching her to be more social. Aunt Alexandra said to Scout: “Speak to your cousin Lily’... ‘Who?’ Your cousin Lily Brooke,’ said Aunt Alexandra. ‘She our cousin? I didn’t know that.’ Aunt Alexandra managed to smile in a way that conveyed a gentle apology to Cousin Lily and firm disapproval to me” (176). Aunt Alexandra is trying to teach Scout that you can talk to people without being rude and offensive. Aunt Alexandra taught Jem and Scout, but mostly Scout is to act more refined. At the beginning of the novel, Aunt Alexandra was not excepting to the Finch family. As the novel came to an end she (Aunt Alexandra) showed that she is more accepting of her family “She brought me something to put on, and had I thought about it then, I would have never let her forget it: “Put these on, darling,” she said, handing me the garments she most despised” (354). That action showed that people do change people. At the Missionary Circle tea, Aunt Alexandra demonstrates how to be lady-like when she heard the news on Tom Robinson and she came back and pretend like nothing happens. Most importantly they learned to respect their family because you should always be by your family's side and respect their