Romantic relationships are complicated, that’s for sure, but its complexity doesn’t stop there. It causes more complications on the way, one being your partner having an emotional affair. What is emotional affair, exactly? It simply means your girlfriend or wife is harboring feelings for someone else. It means she’s developing a special kind of friendship with someone from work or a new friend. There’s definitely a connection between them and it is making her think about this someone else more often than she’s thinking of you. She’s not acting on it, which means she’s still physically faithful to you. But she enjoys conversing with him that the exchange of messages flows prolifically without your knowing. …show more content…
The things about you that she didn’t mind before will start mattering once she’s become captivated with someone else. She’ll criticize your cooking, taste in music, and every little thing that she thinks is wrong with you. This change of attitude is particularly afflicting because she may be weighing everything about you and even comparing you to the other guy. This also means she may be romanticizing what it might be like to be with him.
4. She’s more attached to her phone than before
If you’ve noticed some changes in her technology habits, such as being more attached to her devices than before, this may be because she’s actively communicating with someone else. If she begins evading your questions about who she’s keenly talking with, that could be a sign of guilt. Of course, she’s aware that what she’s doing is wrong, so she resorts to evasiveness. She eventually figures that what you don’t know won’t hurt you.
5. She mentions his name all the time
We drop our friends’ names when conversing with our partners every now and then, but consistently mentioning this specific one friend in every conversation can be inapt and disrespectful. She deserves to be called on it and when you do, examine how she reacts. If she becomes very defensive about it, it may be a sign you start evaluating her true …show more content…
She quarrels with you in a different way
If you’ve been fighting over the same issues repeatedly, chances are her arguments are the same. She’ll just go over them again every time the same squabble comes up. But if she’s saying new and surprising comments in response to the same quarrels you’ve been having for a long time, this could mean she’s been opening up to the other guy and spilling on your relationship problems with him. The new remarks you’re hearing from her aren’t necessarily hers, but the other guy’s comments when she tells him about the arguments she’s been having with you.
When these signs are visible in your relationship, it’s time to speak up and address your concerns. If you want your partner to stop being closed to this other person, say so. It’s only fair to ask her to put her efforts into in your relationship and not with someone else. When you express your feelings and concerns about what’s happening, you’re not essentially blaming her or her friendship with this other person, it only means you want the relationship to work and that you’re willing to give it a stronger chance if she wants