Week 5 Hum/111

Considering ending an unhappy relationship can be a tough decision for anyone to make. There are many things that need to be thought over before making a final decision, and this can be either a problem or an issue. Ending an unhappy relationship can be a problem if you do not communicate with your spouse or partner and hold everything in. this does not give the chance for the partner or spouse to give their input and express their feelings. Some of the ways that I have determined this can be a problem is I am only asking myself questions about the situation and my own feelings. Some of the questions that I may ask myself are, How can I make my feelings known to my partner without hurting his feelings? How can I let him know that I am not happy without a confrontation? How can we both reach a decision that will work for both of us? This can also be an issue when you want to involve your partner or spouse in your feelings. The questions that can be asked here are Does he feel the same way that I do? Is he just as afraid of telling me how he feels? Is he really happy in this relationship? Should I tell him how I feel? Is he willing to work with me on the things that are causing me to be unhappy? Many times this situation would be considered an issue because most couples would talk about these things and not hide their feelings from each other. They also may not want to express their feelings for fear of the other person’s reaction. At this point you need to determine if you want to continue keeping your feelings to themselves or do you want to be open and communicate how you feel so that there can be a resolution. To express this issue in my case, I have identified exactly how I feel and why I feel this way. I have then expressed the issue. I have made myself sit down and think about my feelings as well as how to bring these feelings up to my boyfriend. I then thought about different ways this could go. Then I have refined my expression and revised my