Saturday January 18, 2014
Sereptia Hess-Tucker
Considering ending an unhappy relationship tail can be a tough decision for anyone to make. There are many things that need to be considered before making a final decision, and this can be either a problem or an issue.
Ending an unhappy relationship can be a problem if you do not communicate with your partner and you choose to hold in all of your feelings and emotions. By having no communication, it does not give the lay on the line for the partner or married person to give their input and extend their feelings, as well. I ask myself questions to determine the severity of the problem or the issue. Some of the questions that I may ask myself are, How can I make my feelings known to my partner without hurting his feelings? How can I let him know that I am not happy without an encounter? How can we both reach a decision that will work for the both of us? This can also be an issue when you take to involve your partner or spouse in your feelings. The questions that can be asked here are Does he feel the same way that I do? Is he just as afraid of sorting me how he feels? Is he really happy in this relationship? Should I tell him how I feel? Is he willing to work with me on the things that are causing me to be unhappy? Many people who stumble into this situation would consider it an issue, not a problem, because most couples would talk roughly about these things and not hide their feelings from each other. They also may not want to express their feelings for fear of the other persons’ reaction.
At this point you need to determine if you want to move on keeping your feelings to yourselves or do you want to be assailable and communicate how you feel so that there can be a resolution. To express this issue in my case, I have identified exactly how I feel and why I feel this way. I have then expressed the issue. I have made myself sit down and think about my feelings as well as how to bring these