Being raised in a Roman Catholic household, I can tell you when it comes to forgiveness I was taught to do the Christian thing. As hard is it might be, I should find it in my heart to forgive those who have hurt me, whether they ask for forgiveness or not. What I had never pondered is the chance that someone might ask me forgiveness for something wrong they have done to someone else. Do I have the right to put them at ease or offer forgiveness? In the book The Sunflower, Simon Wiesenthal, a man who had watched countless of innocent Jews like himself be murdered because of sheer hate, shares his unique story. One that has made me think about the way I view, and use forgiveness.…
When you forgive you take back control from your perpetrators. You are open to understanding the difficulties of one. As well as coming to peace in mind and becoming stronger person. The Nazis’ needed a scapegoat, someone to blame for their loss, in which was the Jews (which is purely incorrect). Most young Germans back then were influenced or foolish not to open their eyes. In Wiesenthal, The Sunflower, he speaks about a Karl, a former Nazi and his story and how he saw a family die. While he is on his deathbed he asks for forgiveness and the only reason he was on his deathbed was because he thought of the family that died in front of him while an explosion happened, Karl says, “in that moment I saw the burning family, the father with the child and behind them the mother… ‘No I cannot shoot at them a second time”. It may have only been because he only saw a closer picture of everything that he apologized. After all this time, he only needed to open his eyes and he did and realized the wrong he…
“… if you hold anything against anyone, forgive him, that your Father in heaven may forgive you your sins” (Mark 12:25 NIV). God is expected to forgive his creations, and humans, in their constant struggle to emulate God, follow his teachings. And just as God’s mercy is described as prevailing over his wrath, so in Islam, human to human forgiveness is associated with the control of one’s anger. In fact, one of the characteristics of the Islamic Believer is that “…when they are angry they forgive.” (al-Shura 42:37) Muslims are encouraged to reflect on their own imperfections, and God’s forgiveness for our mistakes, as a reason to offer forgiveness in turn to their fellow humans. Forgiveness among humans is given a high societal value for its ability to heal wounds and promote reconciliation. A similar ideology is expressed in Buddhism, as reflected by the teachings in the Dhammapada. “He abused me, he struck me, he overcame me, he robbed me’ — in those who harbor such thoughts hatred will never cease. ‘He abused me, he struck me, he overcame me, he robbed me’ — in those who do not harbor such thoughts hatred will cease.” Dhammapada…
The book Sunflower is based on the possibilities and limits to forgiveness , and it’s even in the title. The book talks about a young Simon Wiesenthal as he goes to a concentration camp. There he had seen all the horrible acts ,that we read about now, firsthand . While he was there he was put on duty to help a mortally wounded Nazi. As Simon is nursing the Nazi he hears about all the horrible acts that the man has committed. This whole time when the Nazi was on his deathbed Simon could not see how he could ever forgive this man.The…
Despite all the mistakes a person makes shouldn’t forgiveness always be achievable? Kit forgave many people in her life, she forgave her father even after everything he put her through. Kit forgave her mother for not trying hard enough and she forgave many people that entered her life and made mistakes as well. In the novel “Baygirl” by Heather Smith the theme is that there is always room for forgiveness.…
“The Church as Forgiving Community: An Initial Model,” by Chad M. Magnuson and Robert D. Enright is a research article based on the study of forgiveness. This article guides the reader through steps on how to work towards forgiveness as an individual, through the church, and into the community, and also how to then sustain the forgiving community that has been built through this forgiveness education. Magnuson and Enright propose a three-tiered holistic psycho-educational approach to forgiveness education called “The Forgiving Communities.” They state, “The goal of The Forgiving Communities is to deepen individuals’ (and society’s) understanding and personal practice of, and growth in forgiveness”. The model consists of multiple levels of forgiveness education that starts with the senior pastor and works its way down through the church leaders, lay volunteers, and eventually into the entire congregation. The main point of this article is how to train the church community to install and sustain Enright’s process model on forgiveness. With this is the hope that the forgiveness education would trickle down to the children and give them the tools they need to confront injustices in a healthy way into adulthood.…
Everyone can take a lesson in forgiveness. Little grudges and thoughtless condemnations weigh society down and make humanity miserable. “True forgiveness goes hand in hand with no longer condemning. Some people forgive and keep thinking, ‘that son of a gun, what he did to me.’ But is that forgiveness? When you forgive you have to let it go.” (Zamperini 215) Zamperini considers forgiveness to be an all or nothing subject. Either you forgive and let go, or that seed of hatred festers and will once more emerge.…
The Sunflower, by Simon Wiesenthal, was an intriguing and thought –provoking novel that raised many questions on the theological and moral concept of forgiveness. Furthermore, it delved into the matter of whether an individual has the right to forgive in the name of others, or whether forgiveness of the perpetrator was even deserved in the first place. The narrative is told from the first person point of view of Simon Wiesenthal, a young man in his 30s, imprisoned in a work camp. He tells his story of a dying Nazi’s plea for forgiveness and his own subsequent actions. After we hear his story, we can read the opinions of many individuals that tell what they would have done in Simon’s place, and add their own insights into the discussion. Before we delve into the specifics of what I would have done in Simon’s place, and which contributor I can relate to most, I would like to discuss the concept of forgiveness, and what it means to me.…
No matter how bad a crime a person commits, one should still forgive that person when he or she asks for forgiveness. Sometimes people go for the wrong thing because they’re forced to do it just like the dying Nazi. Simon Wiesenthal should have forgiven the dying Nazi because one should forgive but not forget, it is a central tenet of the Jews religion, and there’s no limit to forgiveness.…
Louie Zamperini once said “I was raised to face any challenge.” In the novel Unbroken, written by Laura Hillenbrand, Louie Zamperini, an ambitious WWII veteran, survives the hardships of life through perseverance and forgiveness. He struggled through multiple POW camps and an extreme captor, the Bird, but still managed to become the resilient person that made the impossible, possible. He had no regrets in his life because of the thorough decisions he made. By explaining how Louie’s resilient mindset gets him through the war, Hillenbrand shows how he is able to forgive and forget.…
Jews during the Holocaust suffered huge losses, of both mentally, and physically. Imagining oneself in the place where Wiesenthal was during WWII is almost unimaginable, putting oneself in that much pain and suffering does not seem human. It would be a very difficult decision to determine whether or not to forgive Karl, but I believe that I can make assumptions on what the people were thinking and how to decide.…
Berger, Rebecca Goldstein, Rodger Kamenetz, and Arthur Hertzberg are all against forgiving Karl, their reasoning’s behind non-forgiveness vary. Alan Berger provides various reasons. First, he questions the repentance of Karl and ponders on if it’s genuine or not. He provides a valid reason to not forgive: the beliefs of Judaism followers. Additionally, he also feels Karl perpetuated the Nazi stereotype and expected to cleanse his own soul at the expense of a Jew. Robert Coles, however, believes that Simon does not have to forgive, but he must be prayed for. He agrees with Berger’s idea that Karl spoke in the name of all Jews, not just Simon (page 137). Rodger Kamenetz is on the same page in that he believes Karl did not address Simon as a person, rather a Jew thus removing any individualism left in Simon. Rebecca Goldstein also feels that Karl does not have the right to die in peace because he does not provide each Jew with the individualism deserved. She provides a valid comparison of the Nazi’s thinking Jews are like water. She states,…
The thing about forgiveness, the undeniable, excruciating truth, is the hardest person in the world to forgive… is yourself. Especially when you’re responsible for the deaths of two of the people you love most in the world.…
Different people could have very different point of view about forgiveness, especially for the large-scale crimes like massacring Jewish during the World War II. However, different writers and scholars give different opinions about the forgiveness. Christopher Hollis, known as a university teacher and conservative politician, has different opinions about forgiveness of Large-scale Criminal with me. Hollis argues that victims should forgive about what criminal have done because of religious reasons but I think those offences should not be forgiven if they are done on purpose because forgiveness is helpless for the reality. The difference arguments…
Kids love to play sports, but it won’t take them long to lose motivation. Some kids just need an extra boost. There is a major debate going around about whether or not kids should get a participation trophy. I believe that all kids deserve a trophy for their effort.…