I cannot say I didn’t try and find the same resources that this woman used, but after a period of self acceptance, I realized that this behavior was unacceptable and it’d be unfair for anyone else to have the same experiences.
So I have slowly began to come out to church members in hopes that they will change their mindsets of me, a friend invested in almost every ministry imaginable outside of the clergy. In addition, I worked for the Hillary Clinton campaign and although we did not succeed, I take pride in working for a person who changed their stance on same-sex marriage as the difference between equitable and equal became clear and against a the ticket’s vice president who promoted the idea of using taxpayers dollars for conversion
therapy.