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Homecoming: Reclaiming and Championing Your
Inner Child
By: John Bradshaw

Name: Jessica Klassen
Instructer: Megan Phillips
Date : December 20, 2012
Student ID:
Course: Working with families

1.
Introduction
While reading the Homecoming: Reclaiming and Championing Your Inner Child by John Bradshaw, it has given me great detail into how the wounded inner child will affect someone as they grow into adulthood. It gives you insight, on how to conquer and overcome your wounds that you had growing as a child and how to work through those emotions, so you don’t turn into the person you feared the most, in your childhood.
How a wounded inner child begins. As John Bradshaw states in his book, all wounded children carry their wounds with them into adulthood. If a child is still struggling and not healing from their childhood, they will produce those actions and emotions throughout their life until they have gone through the healing process. The more we know about our childhood and wonder where our creativity and imagination went to, they more we do our best as adults to get it all back. There are ways to prevent our wounded inner child from tagging along in our adulthood, as well as, into our own families and to our children.
Wounded inner child can contaminate your life Many people do not understand how an adult can still live in their childhood body, they don’t understand how someone can still act out like they did as child and figure that there is something wrong with the individual themselves and not on how they were brought up and their parents. John Bradshaw used many different mnemonic formulas, in this part of the book he used contaminate;
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Co-dependence, Offender behaviours, Narcissistic Behaviours, Trust issues, Acting out/Acting in behaviours, Magical behaviours, Intimacy dysfunctions, Non-disciplined behaviours, Addictive/compulsive behaviours, Thought distortions, Emptiness. He talks throughout the first part of the book all the



Bibliography: 1. Homecoming: Reclaiming and Championing Your Inner Child by John Bradshaw 2.

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