In ‘Araby’, the unnamed protagonist focuses his attention on Mangan’s sister, captivated by her physical appearance, becoming hung up on her and getting her attention. It becomes apparent that he starts obsessing over her when he states that “her name sprang to my lips at moments in strange prayers and praises which I myself did not understand.” (Joyce, 2) The relationship is shallow because his obsession is based purely on her physical appearance, and not at all based on her personality. Up until the point, he has not had an actual conversation with her. Similarly in “Write Me Sometime”, the unnamed protagonist focuses her attention towards her relationship with her father, who “wasn’t much more in her life than a lunch once a week”. She ‘writes him longer letters than [she] writes her friends”, yet he “hardly ever writes back…” (Ng-Chan, 39) She puts more effort into this relationship than its worth, because she sees the relationship as more important than her father does. Both characters have an ideal stuck in their head, clouding over the reality, hence the focus on relationships with little meaning. The misconception of the depth of the relationships is based on their struggle to identify reality versus their
In ‘Araby’, the unnamed protagonist focuses his attention on Mangan’s sister, captivated by her physical appearance, becoming hung up on her and getting her attention. It becomes apparent that he starts obsessing over her when he states that “her name sprang to my lips at moments in strange prayers and praises which I myself did not understand.” (Joyce, 2) The relationship is shallow because his obsession is based purely on her physical appearance, and not at all based on her personality. Up until the point, he has not had an actual conversation with her. Similarly in “Write Me Sometime”, the unnamed protagonist focuses her attention towards her relationship with her father, who “wasn’t much more in her life than a lunch once a week”. She ‘writes him longer letters than [she] writes her friends”, yet he “hardly ever writes back…” (Ng-Chan, 39) She puts more effort into this relationship than its worth, because she sees the relationship as more important than her father does. Both characters have an ideal stuck in their head, clouding over the reality, hence the focus on relationships with little meaning. The misconception of the depth of the relationships is based on their struggle to identify reality versus their