At the beginning of the play, Juliet is shown as a young and naïve girl with no experience in love or marriage. When her parents want her to get married with Paris, although she has not given it much thought – “It is an honour that I dream not of” (I.III) she still says to her mother “I’ll look like, if looking liking movies, but no more deep will I endart mine eye than your consent give me strength to make it fly” (I.III). She is stating that she will co-operate with her parents if that is what they want, even if it is marrying a man she does not know. Lord Capulet even said to Paris “my child is yet a stranger to the world” (I.III.Ln.8). This shows that Juliet is not mentally or physically developed to marry and that she has not yet matured. …show more content…
But when Juliet meets Romeo, she discovers true love for the first time.
This is the turning point of her maturity. “Saints do not move, though grant for prayers’ sake…Then have my lips the sin that they have took” (I.V.Ln.104&106), showing she is no obedient girl anymore. Juliet has grown into womanhood. They plan to get married and elope to escape the feud and be together. Juliet has matured by becoming independent. She has opinions of her future and knows what she wants out of life. This is also seen with the bond between Juliet and the nurse. Before she met Romeo, she heavily relied on the nurse but now she has her own opinions and ignored the nurse’s advice when she told Juliet to marry Paris to get out of trouble. Although she still relies on the nurse, Juliet depends on her less which suggests the nurse’s influence on her has weakened. Juliet is now an independent young woman who knows what she
wants.
Juliet experiences further changes and her independence is strengthened and she becomes rebellious to her family. She questions her father’s authority and refuses to do what he says and marry Paris. She also physically separates herself from the family and is willing to lie and betray them to be with Romeo. Juliet is expressing her own opinions and emotions and doing things to portray them.
The final moments before Juliet’s death show that she has fully matured. When she takes the sleeping potion, she says “Go counsellor!...I’ll to the Friar to know his remedy. If all else fails, myself have the power to die” (III.V.Ln.242). Juliet is willing to take full responsibilities for her actions if her plan fails, even if it means death. When she sees Romeo dead beside her, she doesn’t lose control and panic. She thinks for herself and kills herself to spiritually reunite with Romeo. Juliet was willing to give up her own life for the one she loves.
Juliet has encountered many life changing experiences in such a short amount of time. All the positive and negative things have impacted on her in a significant way, and because of this, she was able to learn and discover what she really wanted out of life. She learnt to make choices and rely on herself, therefore becoming independent. Love transformed Juliet, who started out as a naïve, obedient girl and died as a confident and independent woman.