1. Identify the true purpose of penning your memoirs for others to read. For many people, it's simply a legacy they want to leave their children and grandchildren to treasure. For others, it's a journalistic tool for taking stock of where they've been and deciding where they want to go next.
2. Determine whether your autobiography will only be read by family members and friends or whether you want to get it published and read by total strangers. Assess whether your memoirs could do more damage than good. Catharsis may be lovely for the soul but not necessarily well received by others.
3. Read the autobiographies of other people in order to gain an appreciation of how they organized their thoughts and kept their stories moving smoothly from beginning to end.
4. Identify whether your autobiography is going to be a chronological account from childhood to the present or just focus on certain topical events that caused you to redefine or reinvent yourself.
5. Decide whether it is easier for you to write your memoirs or dictate them into a tape or digital recorder and have them transcribed. Sometimes in collecting your thoughts, it's easier to engage in a chatty stream of remembrance first without having to worry about pesky things like spelling, grammar and punctuation.
6. Determine how long your autobiography is going to be. Whether your intended audience will be your immediate family or strangers, most readers prefer the bite-size