The traditional Indian father wants to see his son get married in a dhoti and kurta. The son would prefer a western outfit on the day of marriage as it is in harmony with the latest trends in fashion. But is this necessarily a progressive thought? The traditional Indian mother visits a temple in the evening to participate in the devotional songs that celebrate the birth of Lord Krishna. Her daughter prefers to go to a discotheque on the same evening to celebrate Janmashtami. The question is not about being right or wrong. Neither is it a question of being regressive or progressive. It is a matter of individual choice.
The tragedy lies in the fact that the younger generation usually tend to look down upon the religious and cultural traits of their parents as essentially regressive and even superstitious. They tend to forget that believing in God is not superstition. Moreover, traditional Indian habits like touching the feet of our elders to show respect or visiting the temple with the family on an auspicious occasion are signs of a refined sense of culture, not of backwardness.
A man who does not respect tradition actually makes a mistake of ignoring the past. It would be myopic to presume that the past is dead. The past is alive and dynamic plays a vital role in shaping the present as well as the future. Of course, we are not talking about being obsessed with the past. We merely intend to assert that one should not