It’s one thing to want to feel accepted, or to feel wanted but to lose yourself completely isn’t okay. If anything you should surround yourself with people who are willing to love you and accept you for who you are, instead of the person you’re pretending to be. It’s also known that the people you hang out with are the people you become due to the impact of influence they have on you. If you decide one day to start hanging out with kids that are the complete opposite of you, in the meantime you’re gonna become just like them. You might not even have anything in common with them, but the fact that they accept the fake you, instead of the real you makes you feel some type of satisfaction. Also, the fact that they are great in everyone else's eyes makes you feel like you're above everyone else. That doesn’t necessarily mean you feel complete. You might feel a part of you missing, and that’s because a piece of you is missing. That’s your individuality. You’re going to begin questioning yourself whether you're voice matters, or your mind is worth sharing. Eventually while time goes on, this is all you're ever going to think about. During these times, you’re gonna slowly pick yourself apart and feel alone. You’re gonna become your biggest critique without even realizing it. This is why being a conformist isn’t the best
It’s one thing to want to feel accepted, or to feel wanted but to lose yourself completely isn’t okay. If anything you should surround yourself with people who are willing to love you and accept you for who you are, instead of the person you’re pretending to be. It’s also known that the people you hang out with are the people you become due to the impact of influence they have on you. If you decide one day to start hanging out with kids that are the complete opposite of you, in the meantime you’re gonna become just like them. You might not even have anything in common with them, but the fact that they accept the fake you, instead of the real you makes you feel some type of satisfaction. Also, the fact that they are great in everyone else's eyes makes you feel like you're above everyone else. That doesn’t necessarily mean you feel complete. You might feel a part of you missing, and that’s because a piece of you is missing. That’s your individuality. You’re going to begin questioning yourself whether you're voice matters, or your mind is worth sharing. Eventually while time goes on, this is all you're ever going to think about. During these times, you’re gonna slowly pick yourself apart and feel alone. You’re gonna become your biggest critique without even realizing it. This is why being a conformist isn’t the best