Some people may argue that Lahiri does not believe in the power of communication, and that communication may kill a relationship. Communication is a sign of trust, you’re opening up to someone, and Mrs.Das did just that with Mr.Kapasi when she made her revelation.“Is it really pain you feel, Mrs.Das or is it guilt?...properly insulted ”(66). This quote suggests the ultimate end to their relationship, because we know after this quote she walks out on him and back to her husband. Mr.Kapasi was asking this question because he knew that Mrs.Das was guilty, he found out what was wrong with her and she won’t have it. This argument can be rebutted in the future of the story because we see that Mr.Kapasi still cares about Mrs.Das because he doesn't want her to be scared or in the end where Mrs.Das tells Mr.Kapasi to save her son from the monkeys, not Mr.Das.
Lahiri presents to us the communication issues that the Das family has multiple times throughout the story and constantly uses it throughout the story as a theme. The conversation between Mrs. Das and Mr.Das shows us the lack of communication and even care the Das family has for their kids, “Mr. and Mrs. Das bickered about who should take Tina to the toilet...she did not hold the little girl’s hand as they walked to the restroom”(43). The fact that Mr.Das has to remind