Though, the author states (pg 234) that she was one of the lucky ones. Cofer was privileged enough to get an education and assimilate herself into the American society. The author recognizes that her upbringing has allowed her a set of goals that include changing these stereotypes to a more universal understanding. However, this did not come without hardship. The author was subjected to many forms of cruel stereotypes, even as a young girl.
One prominent example would be a moment she vividly recalls in primary school, she is confronted with a career day at school. This provided the challenge of deciding what was “appropriate” to wear. The young girl was worried her expression of clothing could promote the cultural chasm many still face. On pages, 231-232, Cofer states "that it became quickly obvious that to the Puerto Rican girls 'dressing up' meant wearing their mother's ornate jewelry and clothing"; like any young girl following in the “fashion footsteps” of the prominent female figure in their