Parenting is an acquired skill achieved usually at a early part of adulthood, or subliminally obtained from the false conception that reading a "How to Parent for Dummies" books will actually give you that skill. Two insightful passages into the world of parenting, a essay, "The Most Powerful Question a Parent Can Ask..." written by Neil Millar and the short story "Be-ers and Doers" by Budge Wilson. Both passages attack the common ground of disrespectful children and how to raise them to your ideals. Although both passages share a similar goal they both host completely different attack strategies one much more aggressive then the other. The short story's "Be-ers and Doers" ideal of parenting is put far out of reasonable proportion, it would be feasible to think that the essay "The Most Powerful Question a Parent Can Ask..." is a far more reasonable approach at parenting.…
Sarah Breedlove McWilliams was born in one of the most rural parts of Louisiana on December 23,1867.Though she was born to slaves, she later became a orphan at the young age of seven, she grew up in poverty and had to get jobs working in cotton fields in different parts of Mississippi. Seven years later she got married and conceived a child at the age of 18. Then the death of her husband came two years later, so she decided to travel to St. Louis to work with her brothers who had established themselves as barbers. Later on during the 1890's Walker tried to fight a scalp ailment condition that caused her to loose some of her hair. She tried a numerous amount of hair products and remedies made by another black woman whose name was Annie Malone.…
She attended Brisbane Girls Grammar School and was an organist at All Saints Church when she was young. She completed a music teacher's diploma, and also worked as a typist at the War Damage Commission from 1942.…
Barbara Ehrenreich and Lewis Lapham asked themselves how anyone lives on the wages available to the unskilled. (Introduction: Getting Ready) Roughly four million women were about to taken off welfare reform programs to get jobs that paid $6 to $7 an hour; how will they survive? Barbara wanted to see how the 5 division of Dennis Gilbert and Joseph A. Kahl’s (1993) 6 part class structure handled everyday life without government assistance that she left her regular job and sat out on the journey. Although she has a PH.D in biology, she took the role of a sociologist and invested time, energy, and other resources to take the scientific approach of empirical substantiation. The rules that she set for herself were comparable to the real life struggles and decisions that her coworkers, the working class, faced on a daily basis. I believe the nomothetic question asked in the beginning gave way to ideographic explanations to how and why the working class do what they do and the means to do it. I also don’t…
Judith Warner writes an article about a particular parenting practice called “Helicopter Parenting Turns Deadly.” Judith Warner has received a bachelor’s degree from Brown University and a master’s degree from Columbia. The article brings attention to helicopter parenting and the effects it has on our children through examples and Rosalind Wiseman’s, an author and traveling counselor of parents, teachers and teens, first-hand accounts of helicopter parenting and observations of parents.…
In the book written by Amy Chua titled Battle Hyman of the Tiger the author compares the different cultural upbringings between “tiger mother” a Chinese American women and her spouse, Jed a man from a liberal Jewish background. The Chinese mother was raised by what Westerners would considered to be strict, in regards to parenting. As a child her parents gave her very strict rules, curfew, academics, extracurricular activities were all under her parent’s complete dictation. “The tiger mother” uses these rules as well to prepare her children for success. Childhood to her, was remembered as an area in life where as a parent they would train their children to be strong, confident and successful. Jed, the father…
In the article “learning (your first job)” the author Robert Leamnson, speaks on a lot of different points as to which I interpreted “surviving college”! Leamnson approaches subjects that every single student has ever dealt with. This me believe that every student should be reading this Article. The article is worded for a deeper and clearer understanding of what Leamnson is really trying to say so that there is no confusion in the point that he is trying to make. He makes it very clear that to learn you must understand and you must remember.…
* Authoritive parenting styles tend to result in children who are happy, capable and successful (Maccoby, 1992).…
Helicopter parents are helicopter parents because they want their kid to be successful in their life. They believe that the best way to do it is to be involved in every phase of their kid’s life. It may be beneficial to the kid at an early age but there comes a point where it will start to harm them in the long run. Helicopter parents are causing more harm than good to their kids. Honestly, every parent wants their kid to be successful but maybe the best way for them to be successful is to let them figure life out on their own and not to helicopter…
Munitz highly disagrees. Munitz describes Zee’s style of parenting as “not interested in raising a person at all, but rather an organ grinder’s little performing monkey” (177). He categorizes this parenting style as a “warrior mother,” that is a parent who is more invested in creating a high achieving offspring for their own interest and not the child’s self interest. By showing approval and disapproval of child’s actions, Munitz believes the children can develop dependency on such cues and can be manipulated by others throughout their lives. Munitz believes in a parenting style that is more “hands off” where they represent a source of exposure for their children but not offer much…
Satlow’s argument that, “the Rabbis creatively rework or even subvert biblical ideal” (Satlow, “Creating Judaism,” 141), is one that I unquestionably agree with. By that statement, I believe he means that the Rabbis have made changes to, and even undermined the power and authority of, the biblical texts and the ideas they present. Based on past rabbinic literature readings that I have done, I would have to say that yes, I do agree with Satlow’s statement. That’s because there are many instances throughout the readings where the Rabbis seem to be challenging or not being completely accepting of what the bible says. Their interpretations vary, and they don’t accept the literal meaning of things, for example the “eye for an eye” case or even the Cain and Abel story. Not everyone accepts the statements in the Bible as they are told, and instead they adjust and modify them to better suit more contemporary times, whether it be modernizing laws or molding a story to make it more appealing and comprehensible.…
According to Dr. Tanya Byron a good parent is one who doesn’t worry much about being one.…
The passage that I am looking at from 41-60 and after reading it over and over I find that it is a little tough for me to process, which I hope is normal considering that people don’t talk like this and I don’t read much so I am not ready for this kind of dialect. But for the sake of this paper I shall try and dissect it using one of the three qualities. I am going to tackle the religion one, I am not religious in any sense so I think it would be interesting for me to talk about the text and asking myself if religion is a good source of creativity and relate it to the reading.…
The most well-known example of such occurrence of this is the parenting style dubbed as ‘tiger moms’. This type of parenting is defined as an authoritarian. The parents have extremely high expectations for their children and provided little warmth or emotional support to their children (Boyd & Bee, 2012, p.320-329). In American samples, children who grew up with parents practicing an authoritarian parenting style were seen to be much more anxious, less confidence and underperformed in school (Boyd & Bee, 2012, p.320-329). However, the same parenting style is practiced by Chinese parents, often described as controlling, has shown to result in academically successful children (Chao, 1994). This inherent difference suggests that the concepts of authoritative and authoritarian are ethnocentric and that other confounding factors may be in play when considering the success of a parenting…
Parenting and the way one chooses to parent is so crucial to child development; it affects every aspect of the child’s life. Parenting styles are choices and there is no right or wrong way to raise a child. In society there may be, but it only matters how to the person raising their child. There are endless ways people raise their children and even though we have four main parenting styles, sometimes many parents don’t even fit into one. Parents should just strive to raise their children as well as they can. The biggest thing a parent can do for their child is to teach them, support them, and be there for them. “At the end of the day, the most overwhelming key to a child's success is the positive involvement of parents.” - Jane D.…