Every individual form a part of a social environment in which they may come across many different circumstances, that may affect their way they behave and respond to different scenarios. Starting when their children, they are part of the school community within this community they are exposed to different ideas and ways that people behave many of them that may not agree with what they believe on. Furthermore, the environment in which people grow affects the way that they respond to extreme situations within society, or the way that other people have to interact with them. For instance, Louise Erdrich in her story “The red Convertible” presents to us the story of Henry and Lyman Lamartine…
As the well rounded attorney, church advocate and professor, Dallin H. Oaks once said “ Desires dictate our priorities, priorities shape our choices, and choices determine our actions “. His statement holds true in modern day society and in timeless literary classics.When a strong-willed person decides that there is something they desire, they will often do anything they can to fulfill themselves.Priorities are the driving force behind a person’s actions that determine character and morals. Patterns of how priorities affect different aspects of a character’s lives are especially prominent in The Great Gatsby by F. Scott Fitzgerald and Of Mice and Men by John Steinbeck. Specifically, George Milton allows his purpose in life to be Lennie’s…
The author, Ray Bradbury, chooses this quote for his book because its message corresponds with his beliefs. The statement is displaying how rules are almost controlling our lives, restricting us from making our own opinions. We must not pursue the path paved for us, but rather create our own. In the novel, society has to necessarily follow the rules their government has set. But, some people, like Montag, see the world in a different perspective when reading books. Montag isn’t obeying regulations, however, he's becoming his own person. In relation to the quote, the book is showing how folks wouldn’t have to listen to the principles that’ve been passed down if it cost them their…
So many people I know lack ambition, wisdom, and the strong desire to overcome the adversities they face and solemnly share with me and the public. I encounter and am told these personal moral dilemmas so much so that it feels as if I have been given a gift, that is of course that I am the one told, however, I feel cursed by my own disparities and troublesome childhood I was dealt, my empathy because of this is boundless, making myself one to listen and guide, I always guide.I want to judge and criticize, mock, and hate but i think of the old money way and Nick Carroway begins to muse me “Whenever you feel like criticizing any one,” he told me, “just remember that all the people in this world haven’t had the advantages that you’ve…
Every decision made, will affect us, wether it’s in a negative or positive way. Everyone at some point in their lives will experience some form of peer pressure. Peer pressure is a very influential when we are making decisions. Peer pressure encourages other people to change the way they are or values to please those who are influencing us, which can be a group or an individual. In comparing and contrasting the essays “Shooting an Elephant” by George Orwell and “Group Minds” by Doris Lessing, the authors share homogeneous arguments, revealing the tendency for individuals to choose to comply to the majority of peoples beliefs against their own will. However,…
“Every man must must decide whether he will walk in the light of creative altruism or in the darkness of destructive selfishness.”…
After encountering his own pursuit of happiness when traveling from Boston to Philadelphia, Franklin endeavors on another individual journey in which he explores the moral aspect of human beings. Consumed with the idea of constant self-improvement in the later years of his life, Franklin consents “to the bold and arduous project of arriving at moral perfection with thirteen virtues” (104). Specifically, the following virtues that were quintessential in attaining moral propriety were: temperance, silence, order, resolution, frugality, industry, sincerity, justice, moderation, cleanliness, tranquility, chastity, and humility. “Tis true there is much to be done, and perhaps you are weak-handed, but stick to it steadily; and you will see great effects” (Franklin 5). Publicizing this statement in his essay, The Way to Wealth, Franklin directly applies the virtue, industry, into a short statement known as an aphorism. This message conveys that although the initial circumstances in one’s journey may seem difficult, consistent persistency will eventually lead to great results. With that in mind, Franklin himself acknowledging the difficulty in achieving self-betterment, the arrival to moral perfection began to bear a similar resemblance to the pursuit of…
What are the consequences of challenging societal expectations? This is a question that comes up often in everyday life. One typically runs into consequences when one defies society and does something different than the expected social norms. One may run into a consequence when challenging society shown in Ralph Waldo Emerson’s text, “Self-Reliance” and Jon Krakauer’s novel, Into the Wild. Both works are centered around defiance and they both consist of prime examples of consequences when one challenges societal expectations. Both authors provide examples that can be linked to the fact there will always be consequences when one challenges societal expectations, but they should not be taken to heart. In both “Self Reliance” and Into the Wild,…
The main theme is humans can find it emotionally difficult to conform to society, but usually end up doing so. The meaning of this theme is that we all want to do things that are practical to society even if it feels wrong in our hearts.The main driving component which draws people too conformity are the desire to be accepted in certain status groups. People fear that if they do not conform to society, they will be breaking the social contract, therefore be rejected by society at not being able to achieve their personal goals. It is easier to do what is expected than following our minds and rebel. We chose this theme because we can all relate to it and is common in today’s society. Our identities are formed by us as individuals, but also by the world we live in and the other people who inhabit it. The media, our friends and our families all influence us in one way or another. For example, most of us follow the latest things or culture’s trends such as how to dress.This is important in most teens in our society because they don’t want to be judged and talked about in the general public. The media and the opinions of our peers are both things that we consider important. Even though most of us won’t admit it, we all want to belong. We want to be accepted by everybody, so to fulfill this desire we perform things that are against our will.…
This article exemplifies how our ideas of how people should behave and act are due…
Benjamin Franklin, writer of “The Autobiography,” believed that he wanted to “live without committing any fault at any time,” and he wished to “conquer all that either natural inclination, custom, or company might lead [him] into.” Benjamin Franklin’s plan for bettering oneself had a premise that if everyone completed or attempted the plan, that the world would become a more advantageous place. The personal benefit for Benjamin Franklin or those who have read and follow his plan is an exceptional attitude, which can lead to more intelligent conversations and a virtuous mind. Because Franklin had a large family, he most likely helped his siblings with tasks that did not directly benefit himself; these tasks probably contributed to his Humanistic beliefs. Though this school of thought stays less realistic at this time, Humanistic beliefs may enable people to motivate themselves to make the world a better place, not just for their own personal rewards and…
We are always in the same routine everyday and look for help around us from society that we start to conform. In the letter Chris wrote to Ron Franz saying, “So many people live within unhappy circumstances and yet will not take the initiative to change their situation because they are conditioned to a life of security, conformity, and conservatism, all of which may appear to give one peace of mind, but in reality nothing is more damaging to the adventurous spirit within a man than a secure future” (Krakauer 56). He went into the wild so he did not have to conform to society and he wanted to live the life of not having to worry about the everyday things. Emerson writes, “a conspiracy against the manhood of every one of its members” (Emerson, Self Reliance). What Emerson means…
The societies in Fahrenheit 451 by Ray Bradbury and 1984 by George Orwell clearly show the serious effects of conformity. In both novels, the people’s ability to think independently is nearly diminished; however, they still feel happy. Conformity is known as the most common and most persuasive form of social influence. The matching of attitudes, beliefs, and behaviors are signs of conformity. Knowledge of the mentality of conformity proves to be important since this could improve individuality in today’s society. This paper explains why conformity occurs, what conformity is, and who conformity affects.…
In Jim Bishop’s article Fleeting, Fitful Fame, Bishop discusses how fame is a longing for many people but in most situations they don’t find satisfaction in the end result. Some cases are more drastic than others, resulting in extreme situations such as death for the seeker. Bishop believes that fame can never be good in a persons life…instead it just ruins them.…
A time during which, I felt the obligated to conform to opposing and risky behaviors extent to avoid being an outcast. However, my instinctual desire to reach superiority and self-actualization was the driving force that ultimately led me to end what was no longer positive. I did some soul-searching in order to mature, strengthen, compensate, and fortify my weak points. Other ways, I strive towards superiority include, using my hunger and ambition for success as a fuel for my long-term goals. This has made a profound influence on my confidence and ability to stay true to boundaries. Taking everything into account, I’d to say I agree with Adler’s philosophy, in that, our internal long, desire, motivation, and purpose, to fulfill our potential, lead us to overcome feelings of inferiority and incompleteness. It is in the ways of finding direction, taking the initiate, expressing and accepting encouragement, respect, and social interest that help us feel superior, fulfilled, and optimistic. In essence, a valuable lesson I have learned is that we are all perfectly imperfect that’s why I choose to have a positive outlook on life for me personal…