My ideal life partner
"We waste time looking for the perfect lover, instead of creating the perfect love."
Tom Robbins
Usual people say that two choices in human’s life are consequential decisions. As we know, first is profession, second is life partner. Because your life and future are closely related to your choices. Some believes that it is providential and was determined by destiny, some says that they haven’t met their person, but all of them have criteria, impression and requirements for future wife/husband. In my mind, ideal life partner – loose concept. Every person has its own opinion about relation, love, defined prototype of ideal. There is no ideal person, but almost everyone must improve, try to change his character to better, develop mentally and always think about how to be ideal partner, how to maintain family, bring up child and etc.
Some men think that ideal wife must always clean at home, do the washing-up, always do home works and just sit at home and bring up children and that the role of men is just earn money. But it is not so. They must assort with everything.
Many people think a lot about is their lovers at this time the person who they searched or wanted to marry. But they also don’t remember that if they want to find ideal, deserving partner, they should compel. Start with yourself. Make changes, define what you want and your criteria, persuasions.
John Gottman, the founder and director of the Relationship Research Institute in Seattle said that measures of personality are incapable of truly predicting the length or success of a relationship. John Gottman’s Relationship Research Institute discovered that couples who focus their energy on building something meaningful together in their life (e.g., starting a business together like a magazine,) tend to last the longest. How a couple interacts is the single most fundamental aspect to creating a successful relationship. Meaning, it’s not who you are or what