Joni M. James
Analysis Paper 4
MCCNM 235, Professor Steffen
November 11, 2010
Softened Misogyny
Papa Loved Mama – Lyrics
Verse 1: Papa drove a truck nearly all his life
You know it drove Mama crazy being a trucker’s wife
The part she couldn’t handle was the being alone
I guess she needed more to hold than just a telephone
Papa called Mama each and every night
Just to ask her how she was and if us kids were alright
Mama would wait for that call to come in
When Daddy’d hang up she was gone again
Verse 2: Well it was bound to happen and one night it did
Papa came home and it was just us kids
He had a dozen roses and a bottle of wine
If he was lookin’ to surprise us he was doin’ fine
I heard him cry for Mama up and down the hall
Then I heard a bottle break against the bedroom wall
That old diesel engine made an eerie sound
When Papa fired it up and headed into town
Verse 3: Well the picture in the paper showed the scene real well
Papa’s rig was buried in the local motel
The desk clerk said he saw it all real clear
He never hit the brakes and he was shifting gears
Chorus: Mama was a looker
Lord, how she shined
Papa was a good’n
But the jealous kind
Papa loved Mama
Mama loved men
Mama’s in the graveyard
Papa’s in the pen (Cowboy Lyrics, 2010, p. 1)
According to Amnesty International, misogyny in the lyrics of popular music is one powerful factor contributing to violence against women in society today. However, contrary to the stereotypical belief that misogyny is restricted to blatant and degrading language in the genres of rap, hip-hop, and rock, subtle forms of the issue also occur in
Cited: Amnesty International (2010). Stop Violence Against Women, 1. Retrieved from http://www.amnesty.org.au/svaw/ Cowboy Lyrics (2010). Garth Brooks, Papa Loved Mama, 1. Retrieved from http://www.cowboylyrics.com/lyrics/brooks-garth/papa-loved-mama-5008.html