I was born in the suburbs of the Bronx and raised in the Brooklyn, New York. At a young age, I never understood the amount of hard work my parents had gone through to raise me and give me a great life I have today. They emigrated from South Korea to this country in hopes of the American dream. They had their definition of the American dream as working hard to become successful. They were strong believers in that hard work would result in great results and rewards. My parents took huge sacrifices in order to make it to this great nation. They had left their families, their jobs, and their culture to start a new life. My father went from being a chemical engineer to making a small living as a delivery man for a clothing company while my mother worked as nurse in a small clinic in downtown Brooklyn. We didn’t live in the best of neighborhoods, but it was sufficient enough to provide shelter and food. It took a lot of pain and long hours for my parents to provide for me and they have taught me the most crucial life lessons. They told me that the most important lesson is life is to always put other people before you. They explained how if you are always there to help others and be there for another person, they will return the favor to you. This helped shaped my identity as to be a caring person who is always willing to help out those in need. Throughout the rest of my life, I would encounter this life lessons…
Every January brings a horrendous memory for my family and myself. January being the month, in which my sister passed away, unexpectedly taken from our lives leaving behind the heart broken, chaotic, and depressed husband, parents, and family members. No to mention, the care, love, and tenderness that this new born child would be in desperate need of, where would one begin to manage such a tragedy, to pick up the pieces left and go on to love and care again.…
By seeing my mother struggle trying to manage her house, raising two teenage girls, and caring after her Father motivated me to step up & help my mom. I’ve eventually became literate to caregiving due to my mother. She taught me everything she knew in the results of caring for my grandfather. It wasn't easy for me in the beginning at all, I was only 17 taking on a huge responsibility. While learning hands on I found that I found a love for helping others. Meanwhile during the start of my senior year, I decided to actually make it official. My school offered a program to attend a trade School Known as New horizons. I was excited that I decided to take that next big step into making my literacy a career. While getting the proper training, I also educated my mom. By attending school made things a lot easier for us. Even though I was in school my mom still taught me a thing or two. She came up with some of the best ideas when it came to keeping my grandfather comfortable or even when it came to giving him care. We were the perfect duo when caring for my grandfather. After a long year of attending New horizons While still trying to enjoy my senior year of high school. I was successful and I managed to achieve my license to become an…
One of the biggest influences that can shape not only a child's development, but also a teenager's and young adult's, is that of a mentor. Defined by our book, a mentor is, "anyone who provides guidance-teachers, older siblings, strangers, and, especially, parents. All of them are affected by their culture, and thus culture shapes a child's cognition" (pg. 176). Throughout my life growing up, I have had many mentors that have helped me learn, hone my skills, and teach me lessons that they themselves have acquired from years of experience. Out of all my mentors, the person that had the biggest affect on me growing up, and even to this day, is my mother.…
From the beginning of my parents' divorce, I never thought much about how much my mother worked to provide for our family after my father had left. Often I would take it for granted how great my parents drive was to work and provide for us. But as I became a freshman in high school and my mother was on her second divorce, I learned that I needed to acquire those skills of how to provide for myself and have the same drive.…
It took me eighteen years to spend some quality time with my mother and discover what an incredible journey she has had with my brothers and me. She is the kind of person who has always been very involved with all parts of our daily lives. In fact, she was the kind of mother who always had time for her three sons, worked full-time and had time to devote to community projects too. Her energy and enthusiasm for all of these things seemed endless and she always tried to teach the three of us to see the value in the idea of giving back to the community. I was always glad that she was present at my games and supported me through school, but it took me over a decade to learn what motivated her to be so enthusiastic about her job as a mother of three sons.…
My mentor is my mother for several reasons. She is always very kind to everyone she meets, I can come to her if I have a problem and she has many life experiences I can learn from. Day after day she works hard to provide for our family, making sure everyone is happy and taken care of. She listens when I talk to her and helps me get through rough times. She is a very strong cancer survivor and she loves me just as much as I love her.…
My father, a pharmaceutical representative, taught me to work hard at everything I do which has benefitted me throughout my academic career. If I ever hit a blockade and wanted to give up, he would always say, “You have to finish what you started.” During freshman year, I took Pre-AP Geometry which was a challenging course to me, and after my first test I thought I wasn’t going to pass the class. However, instead of giving up in the class and dropping out to an easier class, I worked harder and studied more. At the end of the year, I passed the class with an A. This work ethic has allowed me to succeed more than fail in life. My mother, a realtor, infused in me values and a curiosity of life. To refuse the easier explanation, and search for a deeper understanding. As a child, my parents constantly taught us lessons such as never leave dishes in the sink and always make your bed before you leave the house. These small lessons have impacted me and shaped me to be a responsible…
Sometimes in life, we face difficult experiences that we wish we did not have to deal with, but these difficult scenarios can become amazing opportunities to grow as people and to build character. I was raised by a single mom and though it was incredibly hard at times, I would not want to be raised any other way. I am the strong and independent person I am today because I have watched my mom struggle and fall down but proceed to get right back up so she could continue moving forward. She has shown me that gender roles are just a social construct, even with small and seemingly unimportant tasks like changing a light bulb, because I saw my mom be fully capable of doing something that a dad would normally do in any other home. We never had a man that brought home a paycheck or supported us in…
My mother was the only one bringing an income into the household for me and my two siblings, so we didn't always have the money to do and get everything we wanted. However, we did have enough money for the things we needed. This definitely taught me to cherish the things I have and not to whine about the things I don't. Without that skill in my life i'm sure I would way less patient with just about everything and i’m sure I would be much more irritable. I am definitely a “homebody” and the fact that I have a small house and can’t always get what I want at home doesn't change that one…
I was born and raised in West Philadelphia in a single parent home. I am the youngest of five children. At a young age I feared making the same mistakes as my mother, older siblings, family members, and peers. I believed that there was more to life than what I saw. A life far from poverty, violence, drugs, and teen pregnancy was all that I achieved for. Since there was no difference displayed in my family and community I weighed a lot of pressure on myself to make a difference. Everyone including my own father doubted my dreams and aspirations. I was constantly reminded that no one succeeds living in this community and that I will be lucky if I am not dead or in handcuffs before I am eighteen. For me this was enough inspiration to motivate me to pave away for the upcoming generation. Not only was it important to me to prove a point but also for children to know that they have a choice. Thankfully with my faith in god, guidance from my mother, and dance I was able to stay motivated and focused on accomplishing my goals.…
What makes your collage life exciting? Is it because you can meet your friends? Or maybe you like to study at school? Well I hope you enjoy listening to the professors’ lectures. Anyway, there are many things that can make your collage life to become a wonderful one. Now, I will tell you about a person who made me always experience a great collage life every day. His name is Kim Tae Jin. He is my senior. He is almost like a mentor to me because up until now, he teaches me how to study as an engineering student, he let me have a great collage life and he always helps me very often with my problems whether it is about exams or assignments.…
When I was young, I was so curious about a lot of things. I used to ask some elders at home about the things I was curious at, but all I can remember are the sweet, calm answers of my beloved grandfather. I never thought that his answers to my childish questions could slowly mold me into someone who values the great mentorship of a grandpa. I realized that yes, he was preparing me to face the world behind the wall. My grandfather inspired me to work hard, taught me how to be responsible, and showed me the value of education.…
My mother is strong beyond expectation or imagination. As a child she went through circumstances that most can’t even begin to envision.My mom has always told me stories of her childhood, and when she does, I can’t help but think that even when times were at their worst, she was always at her best. She excelled in her academics, held on to faith, and remained positive.…
At first, I thought Atticus was just a feeble, old man. He never took part in anything interesting; he didn't play poker, stayed in an office, and didn't go hunting or fishing like all the other men in town. He was never too tired to play keep-away, but when I asked if we could play tackle, he'd tell me: “I'm too old for that, son. ” Whenever there was a football competition, he always told me he was too old for that too. All the other fathers went to it an' all my father ever did was wear his glasses and read. I was embarrassed by him. Though, my whole opinion changed since the incident with the mad dog and the court hearing with Tom Robinson. I was flabbergasted! Miss Maudie said back in Atticus' time, he was the deadest shot in town. They called him one-shot Finch and I couldn't believe it until I saw it with my own eyes. I saw him differently then. I was most eager to brag about it too. But it wasn't just the way he handled the gun that impressed me, it was also 'cause of his modesty. I could tell Scout hadn't realised it, but Atticus never said a word about his marksmanship. I liked that part of him. I also liked his defence for Mr Robinson. Everyone had been against him for defending a coloured person, but Atticus held his head high. He provided an awful good argument too. I appreciated Atticus' efforts and grew to respect him. He had taught me that true courage wasn't a man behind a gun, but it's when you keep on fighting even if you know you'd lose. I wished I could be more like my father. Then I could become a lawyer too. I figured I wouldn't care if he couldn't do a single blessed thing. Atticus is a gentlemen, just like me!…