Mine was where I decided that things would get better. But not just that, I decided later on that I was willing to talk about it. I have spoken in front of hundreds of people about my experience. And it was not what I experienced that signaled to the community I had grown up, it was that I shared my experience and that I talked about such a complex topic with such maturity. And that I was not afraid of a crowd or of anyone’s opinion or judgement any more. Being subject to people’s contempt or judgement no longer phased me, nor did their praise motivate me. By speaking to my community about my life with such openness and honesty I gained their understanding and trust, and they saw that I was not motivated by people but my own intrinsic source of what was right. Speaking at the events and functions I have proved to them that I was more than my experience, and that I was more grown up than many
Mine was where I decided that things would get better. But not just that, I decided later on that I was willing to talk about it. I have spoken in front of hundreds of people about my experience. And it was not what I experienced that signaled to the community I had grown up, it was that I shared my experience and that I talked about such a complex topic with such maturity. And that I was not afraid of a crowd or of anyone’s opinion or judgement any more. Being subject to people’s contempt or judgement no longer phased me, nor did their praise motivate me. By speaking to my community about my life with such openness and honesty I gained their understanding and trust, and they saw that I was not motivated by people but my own intrinsic source of what was right. Speaking at the events and functions I have proved to them that I was more than my experience, and that I was more grown up than many