p.65, #2 – Forms of life-alienating communication, and give an examples.
A. Moralistic judgments: “The problem with you is that you’re too selfish.” “She’s lazy” - Blame, insults, put-downs, labels, criticism, comparison, and diagnoses are all forms of judgment.
B. Making comparisons: comparisons are a form of judgment. - starts to feel miserable, …show more content…
Use of verb to be without indication that the evaluator takes responsibility for the evaluation. You encourage people all the time. I have always seen you compliment people.
2. Use of verbs with evaluative connotations You are picky. You are only eating a few foods.
3. Implication that one’s inferences about another person’s thoughts, feelings, intentions, or desires are the only ones possible He will not allow me to go my friend’s house. My dad doesn’t like me to go my friend’s house at night.
4. Confusion of prediction with certainty. If you don’t exercise, your health will be bad. I worry that your health is going to be bad.
5. Failure to be specific about referents. He will die early. I have not seen he did not smoking.
6. Use of words denoting ability without indicating that an evaluation is being made. She is the smartest person. She got honors scholarship.
7. Use of adverbs and adjectives in ways that do not indicate an evaluation has been made. She is different. I don’t understand her personality, and I don’t want to be a friend with …show more content…
I wonder that this process could be the best way to reach and have a relationship with people. Thus, it would be great to remind the people of the process of prayer at churches, especially, for education department at churches. For children, to have a relationship with God is good way to learn how to have a relationship with friends, family, and neighbors. As teaching the process consciously, the people can learn NVC process naturally from the