As the details in this essay illustrate the people who fail are the ones, who’s bigger than they are, and those who prevail, face a problem that’s manageable. In these chapters we have learned that many people need help for they can succeed in life. Adversity around the world around us is very difficult. Prevailing isn’t easy, you have to try enough to get there. If I were a character in the book Tears of a Tiger, I would tell Andy “Feel your heart is it beating? That’s the whole purpose of it, you’ve made it this far through a lot stuff, can’t quit now never quit”!…
My grandmother once told me you really have to work hard and apply yourself and by applying yourself and working hard and being diligent, you can achieve success. Diligence isn't just something you're born with you have to be industrious and working every day to reach that final stretch. Hopping and happening aren't the same thing and the difference between them is diligence. You can hope something will happen but if you ever want it to happen you have to have diligence. You must be careful and keep trying and trying to obtain the name of diligence.…
* “I shall never forgive myself. Nor shall I forgive the world for having pushed me against the wall, for having turned me into a stranger, for having awakened in me the basest, most primitive instincts.” Xii…
In The Journey the author, Duane BigEagle, creates the theme of overcoming obstacles by using description and point of view. The main character, Raoul has to travel in order to survive his illness. The short story states, “There was just enough for a child's ticket to the little town of Oklahoma.” The author shows the struggle Raoul has to face in order to find the cure to his sickness. In order for Raoul to survive.…
Forgiveness: “She added that you should never hate anyone, even your worst enemies. Everyone has something good about them.”…
It happens a lot in times of loss and we know Arnold has a lot of loss and this really comes into play when he loses his grandmother. Everyone takes a step back and is empathetic of Arnold and all that he's lost. They know that things are not always easy and no matter how mad they are they will always have a connection with him because they are a tribe. Everyone has problems that's what makes us unified. People don't really know what is going on in someone's life until they live in their shoes for just a little bit. Not judging and seeing everything as it truly is and not what anyone else has decided it will be is important because the truth can be found and not letting others be in control along with taking control of one’s life. For example when Arnold begins to understand more of penelope when he finds out she's bulimic. He sees that he is more than hta he first thought and saw. He begins to see the complexity in the individual. Judging less can lead to knowing one’s self more. Moreover, confidence can come from self-awareness. “I suppose it had something to do with confidence. I mean, I'd always been the lowest Indian on the reservation totem pole – I wasn't expected to be good so I wasn't. But in Reardan, my coach and the other players wanted me to be good. They needed me to be good. They expected me to be good.”…
Life is full of challenges. In the stories, “Breaking Through Uncertainty-Welcoming Adversity” and “Neighbours,” written by Jim McCormick and Lien Chao, the main characters illustrate benefits derived from taking risks. Even though both people in these texts undergo personal challenges, in “Neighbours” the character, Sally, receives greater benefits from taking risks than McCormick in “Breaking Through Uncertainty-Welcoming Adversity”.…
As our fragile minds go through adolescence and on to adulthood, we face obstacles that are put in our way that shape and define us as human beings. Some people tend to crack under the pressure others trudge through it challenging and pushing themselves to their limits. We aren’t always alone we have people that are there to help us along the way and sometimes they leave their mark on you like on the last shot in which a man talks about a lost friend who died in war (Source G). We find the strength and character in our hardship to develop and function in society. Hardship some times teaches us how to work harder and not to be afraid to fail and start all over again making people stronger and resourceful. It isn’t how you face the challenge that matters it’s how you react and respond to it that counts.…
Rather than being gifted with parents who were capable of being around for all life’s hardships, I was given parents who were forced to work hours that did not allow for these moments. So while they were slaving away in factories to give their children the type of life they had not been so lucky to have, I decided that nobody knew what kind of person I wanted to be more than I did. So I would be the decider of what was acceptable for me to behave like and what should not.…
The author states “Each person’s healing follows the same basic script. This is why for all of us, no matter how badly we have been hurt or when or why it happened, the remedy has one name: forgiveness.” This quote is very important because even though harm is caused, the only way to move on with your life, and not live in the past, is forgiveness. Without to forgive you can’t live the life. If you learn how to forgive.…
When these moments in life hit, people see them as barriers, unable to be broken down. However, there is a point when an individual demonstrates their true qualities or characteristics, which would not have come to light unless an adversity had risen. Adversities can allow individuals to view the world in a new perspective due in part to their hard work, though this is not always the case as the pressure may become to intense for some individuals to conquer.…
Kevin Conroy once said, “Everyone is handed adversity in life. No one’s journey is easy. It’s how they handle it that makes people unique.” Dictionary.com defines adversity as “adversity n. adverse or unfavorable fortune or fate; a condition marked by misfortune, calamity, or distress.” Adversity is something that everyone will experience at some point in his life; however, some people face greater adversities than others. Morrie Schwartz and Elie Wiesel are two men that faced two of the greatest adversities that this world knows. Elie is a survivor of Adolf Hitler’s destruction of the Holocaust, and Morrie Schwartz was a simple man who lost a battle to Lou Gehrig’s disease, or ALS. Both of these men’s lives have been captured in best-selling…
For example, “A man travels many miles to consult the wisest guru in the land. When he arrives, he asks the wise man: :Oh, wise guru, what is the secret of a happy life?” “Good judgment,” says the guru. “But oh, wise guru,” says the man, “how do i achieve good judgment?” “Bad judgment,” says the guru” (213) When we make mistakes it is usually hard to admit them. The book points out the problem of our mistake-phobic and narcissistic culture today. We have a hard time separating the sin from the sinner. When people make mistakes we usually blame the person rather than weighing the circumstances. This is also known as a fundamental attribution error where people tend to emphasize and criticize a person’s mistake due to their characteristics, personality, or judgment rather than external situations. The mistake is what we did and is not what defines us. The first step in admitting your mistakes is forgiveness. In addition, chapter two starts out with this quote: “And why do you look at the speck in your brother’s eye, but do not consider the plank in your own eye?” Matthew 7:3 (40). We too often blame and harass other people for their mistakes and errors when we overlook our own. Instead of laughing at others misfortune and errors we should humble ourselves and reflect, grow and learn from our mistakes. The book contains two great quotes that embody the whole moral of making mistakes: “A great nation is…
There have been many times in my life where I had to overcome adversity, but my best example was way back in elementary school from the grades kindergarten through 5th grade. I used to not care about my academic standpoint or ego on how people looked at me. I had the potential to be a very smart and excellent student and excelled in school but I didn’t take advantage and did everything possible to not do the work. In many circumstances, I would have lied or cheated so I wouldn’t have to do the work. My grades that I was getting was not a reflection of my smartness but a reflection of my arrogance and laziness. My parents would yell at me all the time and have long talks with me because they knew I was better than this and tried every possible…
Adversity to me is what challenges and obstacles stand in our way. The fear and voices in our mind that we must overcome. Overcoming and having power over adversity is very important. We need to realize we can not hide the truth. We need to take a step and realize what is important. What you have to do.…