Momma’s grandchildren couldn’t fathom calling Momma “Annie”, so when other young adolescents would come into the store and address her as such, they would be livid. Almost ashamed. Also, their Uncle worked in the store with Momma. White kids would come in the store bossing him around, giving him things to do that could easily be done by themselves. To her “crying shame”, he and his grandmother would do…
Melissa was a waitress before working at Wal-Mart, where the two met. There had “been some disorganized patches in her life…but that (was) all over now that she has given her life to Christ” (86). Melissa was married to a construction worker, and her children were all grown. The two ladies began to talk more at work, and Melissa even brings Barb sandwiches for lunch occasionally, showing her hospitality and pity for Barb’s “poor” condition, even though Melissa herself is poor. “She calculates in very small units of currency…” (90). Despite her poverty, Melissa continues to show Barb kindness by bringing her food. Melissa is a reflection of many other low-wage workers- she is hospitable and considerate despite being poor. But although she doesn’t have much money to spare, Melissa does have an advantage over other low-wage workers- she has a working husband. This adds a second income to a person’s life as well as a built-in roommate to share rent with. “I either need to find a husband, like Melissa, or a second job, like some of my coworkers,” Barb thinks, inferring that having a working husband makes the same impact on a person’s survival as having a second job (94). This advantage allows her to afford to work at Wal-Mart for only seven dollars an hour. In addition to being able to be hospitable despite her low salary, Melissa is very dedicated to the low-wage system. At Wal-Mart, the employees are almost constantly…
The importance of working and family is always facing one another. Working parents tend to spend less quality time with their children because of work demand. In modern America there’s more responsibilities that have to be taken cared of. Now, there is no time to time to waste. Gopnik worries about his daughter’s imaginary friend by writing, “I was concerned, though, that Charlie Ravioli might also be the sign of some “trauma,” some loneliness in Olivia’s life reflected in imaginary form” (154). Olivia who is just a three-year-old child is seeing the effects of capitalism. Her older brother is busy with his activities and her parents are busy with work. Olivia’s mimicking of her mother created this imaginary friend called Charlie Ravioli. She would constantly hear her mother talk on the phone with friends about work and Olivia would mimic that. Her imaginary friend who is too busy to play with her bounces between work and meeting, leaving no time to play with Olivia Gopnik. Mr. Ravioli’s character is a suggestion to the busyness she sees in her daily life. Therefore, Olivia is just creating and mimicking everything that she sees. The way Olivia rushes when she speaks on the phone is learnt from her mother. Parents take up a huge role in their children. Likewise, Hochschild argues how children as creating a similar lifestyle as their parents. She writes, “In other families, parents seemed to encourage children to develop schedules parallel to and as their own” (190). Due to the increase of the working demand, parents are trying to make their children’s schedules similar to theirs. Parents are constantly lacking time and cannot do certain activities with their children, by having parallel schedules everyone will be able to enjoy time together. Creating a parallel schedule is going to keep children busy as well. Eventually they will develop a similar lifestyle…
Even though her childhood was not very enjoyable, her parents try to make it up by obtaining jobs so they could have the bare essentials. Jeanette’s father, who is extremely intelligent, worked in the barite mine as an electrician trying to bring home a stable income for his family to ensure the best success for his kids. “ The barite mine where Dad worked had a commissary, and the mine owner deducted our bill and the rent for the depot out of Dad’s paycheck every month. At the beginning of each week, we went to the commissary and brought home bags and bags of food” (Walls 56). The effect of getting money to pay for food was huge for this family because when they had no money left, their kids would go through the garbage and trying to find leftover food from others to ensure they don’t get hungry. Jeanette’s parents are the only source of income and if his father lost his…
Ascher initiates her article by taking the readers on a journey through her use of an anecdote. Starting with a description of a homeless man, “His button less shirt, with one sleeve missing, hangs outside the waist of his baggy trousers… As he crosses Manhattan’s Seventy-Ninth Street, his gait is the shuffle of the forgotten ones held in place by gravity rather than plans.” (1) Ascher begins to give her audience a feel for what the typical homeless person is viewed as; someone shaggy and different from sophisticated city people. She instigates her argument by using this statement to indicate to her audience that the homeless are being forgotten; therefore, is receiving a lack of compassion. “The others on the corner, five men and women waiting for the crosstown bus, look away,” (2) By stating that the men and women looked away, Ascher is revealing to her audience that not only are the homeless being forgotten, but they are also being overlooked. Ending her anecdote about the homeless man, Ascher begins to give her audience a taste of her critical tone: “The mother grows impatient and pushes the stroller before her, bearing the dollar like a cross.” (5) The simile, “bearing the dollar like a cross,” suggests that Ascher is purposefully being judgmental of the mother. This reveals that the mother’s goal is to simply get rid of the homeless man, rather than showing him a little bit of compassion.…
Living in New York City, Ascher has had many experiences with the less fortunate and how others react to them. She cleverly adds some of these personal anecdotes to her essay. Ascher describes a woman who gives a dollar to a homeless man after he stops and stares at her child. Was the woman’s sympathy genuine or based off of fear? In another instance Ascher witnessed an owner of a coffee shop giving a food and coffee, the owner did this twice.{Ascher,47} The owner could have been annoyed and wanted to get rid of the man, or she really could have empathized with him. These stories are the foundation for the rest of the essay, without them Ascher wouldn’t have the credibility that is also established through them.…
She, my aunt, and my grandmother had hauled suitcases up to Portland for one mysterious weekend every year for the past 12 years. Albeit, only recently have I taken notice. In September of 2009, I joined the tradition. The Race for the Cure is a two-day event consisting of a convention and the actual race day. Neither of which I was eagerly awaiting. However, the shopping trip I was promised in addition to my attendance left me quite animated. Over the past several years, I often stared in awe at the mysterious bags of merchandise snuck into my house upon their return. I felt as if I finally got to learn the trade secrets being a woman: running off to the city to shop, eating at expensive restaurants, and apparently swearing a vow of silence, for only those in attendance were privy to the details surrounding Race Weekend. In retrospect, I realize that my attendance had probably been neither eagerly awaited nor a graduation to womanhood, especially given the amount I complained. At the moment, I didn’t dare consider any of these recent revelations. A whole new world had opened up to me. Nonetheless, in a true childish fashion, I began to regret it after a mere 24…
The independent variables of this study is the gender of the aggressor. The dependent variable is the responses given by the bystanders. There were two students (researchers) who observed the bystanders for each observation. Each part of the study involved a male aggressor and a female aggressor as the confederates. For the female observation there were six individual behaviors observed. For the male observation there were seven individual behaviors observed.…
felt the author built this relationship up well so that the story would have a…
Have you even been able to just sit down and watch people? Watching people is one of the craziest things to do in life. There are so many different types of people in the world. You can't predict what you are going to see or hear. I went to the Boise Town Square Mall and was given the opportunity to sit down and observe the lives of others around me.…
1. Each person played a number of roles, and some roles everyone did. Fortunately, far more of the positive roles were filled than the negative roles. Played the role of the supporter/encourager. Was the harmonizer between all of us, as she was easily the most neutral and calm person among us. Tension relievers were both X and Y. Y's tension relief sometimes went so far as to stretch into the dysfunctional joker role, as well. X, Y, and Z were the gatekeepers, as they kept us on track and moving forward the most. The feeling expressers were X, Y, and me, every so often. C and V were almost always the followers.…
I picked to do my observation of a woman at a park playing with her son. It was on Monday are last day of nice beautiful warm sunny weather we had this week. And the park was packed with lots of children and their mothers. All enjoying themselves before the rain was to return.…
In the mall you sit in the middle of the courtyard. There is a big crowd of people just hanging out, or conversing with each other, or waiting for transportation. In this courtyard there are some small potted trees and bushes; these plants are beginning to turn brown since the winter is drawing near. As you sit on that stone bench you notice the different cliques of people. There are the high schoolers, the “cool kids”, the parents and their children, and the young couples.…
On a Saturday afternoon, the food court is packed with hungry people. The stores are filled with customers ready to spend money. Best of all, the entire mall is full of all kinds of individuals. They come in all sorts of shapes and sizes, and are from all walks of life, which can be seen with just a simple glance. Watching the people in the mall it is easy to see the shapes they come in, both figuratively and literally. One may see a 300- pound woman in a shirt that is four sizes too small, revealing stretch marks. Her shorts are hugging her thighs like a boa constrictor on it prey, allowing the view of cottage cheese under her shorts. Then, a group of teenagers comes around the corner, ranging in size form an 18 year old in a four year olds body to a 15 year old in a 30 year olds body.…
Good evening dear audience. As you all know I am here to discuss one of the most irksome aspects of the society in which I live in. I have come to talk to this adoring audience about a light-hearted and sometime humorous topic of the typical teen-age stereo-type as the announcer has already told you.…