Every Thanksgiving, my family gets up early to drive down to New York, where we meet with aunts, uncles, cousins, and my Grandmother. Over the course of the day, delicious smells materialize as heaping mashed potatoes, green beans sautéed with onions and turkey bacon, and sweet potato casserole topped with bubbling marshmallow join the turkey on the serving table as I breathlessly await the early dinner.
But amidst my enthusiasm, I always encounter one problem. My aunt, like many families in America, has a housekeeper and on Thanksgiving, she helps prepare the feast. Her name is Flor. She’s 4’ 11”, from the Philippines, and has worked for my aunt and uncle for many years. The whole family loves her. But on Thanksgiving, I can’t help but feel bad, legitimately bad, that while my whole family is enjoying this amazing meal, Flor sits in the other room, either having a little by herself, or cleaning up some of the pots and pans before the dirty plates and utensils