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Personal Narrative: Sibling Rivalry
In my life, there have not been many occasions where someone would be uplifting to me. It was hard to understand myself at times, mostly confused on where I was supposed to go, do, and act at times. However, ever since I came to school, there have been uplifting moments in my life, and moments that would cause me to abolish everything I stood for. Nevertheless, there is a quote a famous woman who contains the name Mother Teresa of Calcutta, and it states, “Kind words can be short and east to speak, but their echoes are truly endless.” This quote plays a huge role for my social and mental health; speaks truths, and is extremely accurate. In my elementary years, there have been many cases of sibling rivalry; which is consistent and also common amongst a family who stays together wherever they go. This sibling rivalry gave me insecurities about myself, whether I had a purpose in my life, or whether I am worth to live or be loved. It is obvious that I never told anyone, because I also had fears about being put down as a child again but my older siblings. It was hard at times; however, eventually I grew out of the strife, and became more independent and more …show more content…
Considering who I am now, this started a huge new chapter in my life. Band is and was amazing, and then I just thought it as a hobby of mine, or some side activity to participate. However, I eventually grew out of that naïve mind set and concluded that band was the best experience that ever happened to me in my life span. In my current life at this time, band is everything to me; it is my way a living, my purpose, and my life. Nonetheless, I would have never gotten to this conclusion of my life without the influences in my surroundings, the uplifting charismas about band, and the never ending lust towards the magnificent aspects about band. In conclusion, being in the music program helped my insecurities and my social

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