1. A fact is just a substandard interpretation.
2. The reason why our memories are not perfect is that we memorize the features of the subject, not the very thing of the subject. Furthermore, the ways to capture the features are different by the person.
3. The bad memory worries ourselves when we want to take a rest like a chair without a leg.
4. If you want to accept …show more content…
new things, you have to empty out yourself like an empty glass.
5. Two different subjects which are contractual with each other, exchange traces. If I got an emotional injury form someone, there was an enough possibility that I gave an injury to him or her too.
6. A prejudice is the most serious cause that it makes people disregard the truth.
7. Indeed, there was more to this than meets the eye. There is a limitation what we can see, and we have to try to see more than everyday life.
8. Is your mental immature while your body is getting age more and more? This book starts with a bad memory of the author. She wanted to enter a prestigious high school, but she could not pass the exam. She had to enter another school, and she could not accept that she could not study at the prestigious school. She wanted to be a doctor, but she had experienced three additional failures at the entrance examinations of medical schools. When I read this episode, I thought I would get an advice to overcome the bad memories from this book. However, the author could not show the exact and concrete solution how I can overcome the band memories. In the middle part of this book, the author started to tell her daughter’s story. She tried to explain the relationship with her daughter and intelligence of the daughter, but I do not have any interest in her personal life and family. Therefore, I want to say that I was really disappointed in this book. I do not want to recommend this book to other people. Nowadays, I am suffering from the bad memories which I had experience in a high school, middle school, university, and company.
I had gotten a lot of scars by friends, co-workers and family. I know that I don’t have to meet and make relationships with almost all people who gave me the scars. However, until now, I cannot forget the bad memories and overcome it. The most serious problem is the relationship with my mother. I have to sustain the relationship because we love each other. However, I often feel that the ways she loves me and tried to take part in my life are too strong and uncomfortable. In my opinion, she does not have her own life. The most important things for her are her husband’s business and her son’s career. She needs to have her own life and enjoy something what she really wants. Of course, I know that I have to try to understand her feeling, but it is not easy. It is because, nowadays, I want to focus on only my life and happiness. I want to have my independent life from my family. I cannot sure how I can make both of us happy. It is not easy, and it has made a lot of bad memories. I want to overcome
this.