Pamela Haynes
PHL/478
Oct. 27, 2014
Julie Largent
Pina Bausch was born in the year of 1940 in Solingen as Philippine Bausch: she was known as Pina her nicknames as she was growing up. She and her siblings worked in a restaurant conjoined with a hotel. As a child she began to observe people and things that seem to excite them. Things that surrounded her in her early childhood and her early years of experiencing war reflected in her pieces, in certain outburst of panic and fear of unnamed damage.
One of Pina Bausch first performance of dance was with Solingen Children Ballet. At the age of fourteen Pina began to study dance with Kurt Jooss at the Folkwang School in Essen. Jooss was known …show more content…
“Heyn argues that the ideal of the Virtuous Wife has taught us that she is the one responsible for the quality of the relationship--that to make a marriage work, women must be sacrificing, accommodating, good. But those are qualities for sainthood, not happiness. In fact, they assure precisely the opposite--distress, resentment, and guilt in both partners.”(Amazon1998) Heyn continued to explore the impact of the institution of marriage on modern women in Marriage Shock: the Transformation of Women into Wives (1997). Her most recent book, Drama Kings: The Men Who Drive Strong Women Crazy (2006), examines the ways in which strong women can overcome an attraction to emotionally unavailable men and instead focus on finding the romantic relationships they really want. (Export Network …show more content…
A sought-after speaker and commentator, she has appeared on The Oprah Winfrey Show, Today, The Charlie Rose Show, and Good Morning America, among other programs. She produces a regionally broadcast television show, The Love Goddess Show, and can be found online at dalmaheyn.net and thelovegoddess.com. She lives in Westport, Connecticut. (Export Network 2010)
Dalma Heyn is a New York Times bestselling author and psychotherapist who have worked for twenty-five years to help women develop the best possible intimate relationships, while still flourishing as individuals. Her books, which explore the loss of self that many women experience within marriage, have been lauded as revolutionary. (Export Network 2010
“Marriage Shock” writer, Dalma Heyn posits a provocative thesis: that upon marrying, women fall under the spell of an age-old notion of “The Wife” and subtly change their behavior in order to conform to this ideal. According to Heyn’s informal survey, even an independent, confident woman suddenly begins speaking up less, hiding her opinions more, focusing on other people’s pleasure and happiness, at the expense of her own. What explains this odd muting of self, and is it necessarily a bad development? The author’s frank interviews with dozens of young wives (some of whom sound like tomorrow’s divorcees) are likely to raise hackles, not to mention points