The story of the false soulmate:
There are moments in a lifetime, where the beginning of a relationship can be a rocky experience. However, the awareness becomes stronger when the waves have calmed, and the horizon becomes clear. Thus, indicating, that all was meant to be traveled in such a way. When a relationship begins imbalanced, this is not always a sign to jump ship and run. The source is sharing many lessons with you always. In times of emotional turbulence, it may be time to listen, not run.
(Let’s use the temporary false love that Jon and Elisa shared, as the perfect monument towards Egoic surrender)
Jon is well respected amongst family and friends. He is extremely intelligent but impatient with …show more content…
It is amazing how much surrender Jon experiences over the next four months, after returning to Canada. Elisa experiences a very similar set of realizations, only in many different ways from Jon. Elisa had a different type of ego to surrender. She had emotional insecurity to let go of, but she does so in a way where she feels hurt by Jon in the beginning of the surrender. This is simply because she is emotionally attached to the outcome and under the illusions of love. His mind made assumptions that he was going to see her, but things did not go as planned, so they never got together. Jon is wondering if his soulmate is another woman. He does not know yet. They were attached to the outcome of their relationships progress, even though it was covered up by the positive ego. She does not understand why she is so drawn to him, even with this pain she is creating. Jon is very strong, and he has faith that this is happening for a reason deeper than both of them can see in their mind’s. There is an essence deep inside of them both, that is telling them that they are each others soulmate, but this is likely not true for both of them. A test of the false soulmate, before the true one could be? Yes, feels Jon. He has taken her on a journey so far. Up and down with his own emotions and predictions of his own success. This is Jon’s lesson to learn. Even though she has tried to distance herself from him out of fear of rejection, and loss of love; in an attempt to play a mind game, Jon decides this behavior must be a sign from the universe that he should let go and end things with Elisa. In fact, there is not even really a thing at all between them. They do not communicate anymore. Elisa realizes that Jon is great, in a different way than she first expected. Jon had anger and mental images to let go of, while Elisa had some inward anger, and images to let go of as well. Elisa