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Some individuals are far more likely to find themselves in this kind of conflict than others. It’s not a familiar pattern in a healthy relationship, but common in one that’s already distressed. It seems to be separate from other negative behaviors, such as screaming and yelling, although it often appears with them. There’s evidence that it’s more common if a spouse is depressed. As a pattern, DM/W seems to have a gender bias. Most of the research shows that the Demand role tends to be played by women, the Withdraw by men. (The shorthand for this in marital studies is WD/HW, or wife demand/husband withdraw—as opposed to HD/WW, or husband demand/wife withdraw.) Theorists have proposed that the differences in how women and men are socialized may account for the skew—in this scenario, women seek out affiliation, are more expressive, and fear abandonment while men are more autonomous and afraid of engulfment in relationships. While this may be true in some cases, this socialization argument, explored in the late 1980s and 1990s, seems to echo the cultural tropes of the times, epitomized by the enormous success of John Gray’s Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus.…
Often, by the time a couple enters into marriage counseling the couple has been participation in a cycle of destructive behavior ranging from, anger, hostility criticism, communication issues, and so forth. It is reported that more than 40% of clients who seek psychotherapy of any kind state marital distress and the reason (Gurman and Fraenkal,…
In this paper I will look at what is means to be a couples’ counsellor. What theories apply to this mode of counselling and how can these can be utilised during the sessions. I will also consider some of the aspects that need to be considered with couples counselling including tools and key focus areas to support the effective sessions.…
COMMUNICATION IN FAMILY AND ROMANTIC RELATIONSHIPS PRESENTATION Team A BSHS 385 Dr. Barbara Hughson July 21, 2015 ROMANTIC CONFLICTS Communication …
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Despite what many people may think, relationships are not the key to a happy life. This misconception exists today in order to support the idea of investing in relationships with friends, family, coworkers, or even love-interests; however, living according to this misconception causes people a tremendous amount of sorrow and frustration. Often times individuals let those around them hurt them to merely maintain or restore a relationship. Relationships are supposed to be a mutual “give and take” association between two or more persons, but it appears that the torment and anxiety caused by relationships forces individuals to “give” a little more than they can “take.” Using distinct rhetorical strategies, several unique authors reveal this disheartening…
In addition, I think that this study proves to be a significant headstart for new military couples to acknowledge before one of their partner were sent on tour. Even though it can be hard to apply in practice but a steady guildline for newcomer is better than none at all. Nonetheless, even though there had been previous research that had looked into relational uncertainy and relational maintenance behaviors but this is the "first to compare the predictive power of self, parter, and relationship uncertainty". This gives a different side of perspective on relational uncertainty as the individual would assess not only on the relationship iself, but the role of his/her relationship as well as themselves. I believe that this idea of studying relational uncertainty this way is very informative because it is interesting to not just find out about the overall relationship but what roles each individual plays in it as well which I believe is…
This silence is broken often when she goes through physical or emotional abuse. The high price they pay for saving their relationship leads them into depression. Depression may also occur because women start sensing that they cannot be themselves in their relationship and start to conform to someone else’s idea for been a good women ,partner, or mother. According to this theory, the priority that women give to maintaining personal relationship can lead to stresses causing depression. Women still find their relationship are the primary source of both meaning in their lives and depression whether they are housewives or a working women, whether they choose to have children or not ,wether they choose men or other women as…
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couples (Doctoral dissertation, Regent University, 2005). Renshaw, K. D., Rodrigues, C. S., Jones, D. H. (2008). Psychological Symptoms and Marital…
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In the book “The DNA of Relationships” Dr. Gary Smalley gives many examples of how to handle rough patches in a relationship. He gives advice on things you need to work on in yourself before confronting your partner, or friend. He also lists many fears and our reactions to these fears. It is a good book to read whether you are in a relationship or not.…
When things feel bumpy in a love relationship, one or both partners can unconsciously start to disconnect from one another emotionally. As time goes on, the effects of increasing periods of disconnection lead to higher levels anxiety as the relationship starts to feel precarious, feelings of anger can emerge, and some partners can become more controlling in an attempt to contain things. As disagreements or arguments escalate, people instinctively either become more demanding and clinging in an attempt to gain comfort and reassurance from their partner, or they withdraw and become more distant in an effort soothe and protect…
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