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page 243 to be particularly clarifying. "Men may defend the life of the neighbor merely to preserve those processes of mutuality by which their own life is protected. But that only means that they have discovered the Interrelatedness of life through concern for themselves rather than by an analysis of the total situation" (Christian Ethics 243). To me this means that as much as we would like to think we would lay down ourselves for our neighbors, we would only do so if we thought we might profit or gain from the action. Reinhold goes on to claim that "it is natural enough to love one's own family more then other families and no amount of education will ever eliminate the inverse ratio between the potency of love and the breadth and extension in which it is applied" (Christian Ethics 245). This piece of the passage was what ultimately led to my understanding of how Niebuhr could claim that agape love is impossible. Thinking of my own family I would undoubtedly choose my family over anyone or anything were it that I was forced to make a decision. The love which we feel for those who bore and raised us or for that matter lay within our blood line will always be closer to our hearts and minds. As much as we try as Christians to live out our faith by doing as Christ did, we cannot be reasonably expected to forsake our own family in regard for another. It belies the logic for which we have grown accustomed to through our society. Only Christ was able to show complete compassion for all due to the nature of his mission on Earth.
In further developing his claims, Reinhold Niebuhr cites Sigmund Freud's "Civilization and its Discontents," pp.
139-140. Freud's argument was that "the command to love the neighbor as ourselves is the strongest defense there is against human aggressiveness and it is a superlative example of the un-psychological attitude of the cultural superego. The command is impossible to fulfill; such an enormous inflation of the ego can only lower its value and not remedy its evil." I think it is important to note that while Freud states that the commandment is downright unattainable for a culture, I do believe that certain individuals posses what is necessary to show an agape love. Yet while it is possible, very few people in the course of history have been able to develop this kind of love for mankind. But to this argument, Niebuhr states that "the faith which regards the love commandment as a simple possibility rather than an impossible possibility is rooted in a faulty analysis of human nature which fails to understand that though man always stands under infinite possibilities and is potentially related to the totality of existence, he is, nonetheless, and will remain, a creature of finiteness" (Christian Ethics 246). He goes on to state that man "will never be able to divorce his reason from its organic relation with the natural impulse of survival with which nature has endowed him; and he will never be able to escape the sin of accentuating his natural will-to-live into an imperial will-to-power by the very protest which he yearning for the eternal tempts him to make against his finiteness" (Christian Ethics
246).
In addressing how Reinhold Niebuhr's claim is relevant to our everyday lives I feel it is important to understand, as a Christian, that no matter what we try to do or accomplish in terms of our spiritual growth, we will always be sinful human beings. Niebuhr himself offers us this insight in his closing sentence by stating that "repentance is thus the gateway into the Kingdom of God" (Christian Ethics 247). Therefore, even though we cannot hope to ever possess a true sacrificial love for all of humanity; it is a mute issue as it is no more relevant to our salvation than any other supposed ideal of the Christian faith. I know that in my life, I have been faced with situations in which I could have shown a deeper sense of understanding and love for my fellow man but chose, rather to honor myself and my own selfish ambition. It is interesting also to note that as Niebuhr analyzed "prophetic religion," he separated this group into two world views. Niebuhr goes on to state that, "broadly speaking, the conflict between these two world views is the conflict between orthodox Christianity and modern secularism the prophetic tradition in Christianity must insist on the relevance of the ideal of love to the moral experience of mankind on every conceivable level" (Christian Ethics 242). I found this concept to be particularly difficult to assimilate until Niebuhr clarified it by stating that "the impossibility of the ideal must be insisted upon against all those forms of naturalism, liberalism, and radicalism which generate utopian illusions and regard the love commandment as ultimately realizable because history knows no limits of its progressive approximations" (Christian Ethics 246). Basically I feel that that Niebuhr is making the claim that the Christina Orthodoxy, while it strives for the practice of the "love ideal" knows that humanity is flawed and therefore does not possess the necessary fortitude to withstand the temptation of sin. Yet modern secularism seems to promote the "utopian" perspective in that it says that all things are plausible given a yet to be ascertained time line. I feel that Niebuhr is correct in his thinking. I know as a Christian that Jesus came to earth to die for my sins, one of which is not possessing an agape type love for my fellow man. To say that mankind is capable of learning to love unconditionally is to deny Christ's mission on Earth to more simply to mock the work of our God. Modern secularism seems to scapegoat Christ in a way by seeking to reform humanity to a point of stability which cannot and will not ever be reached. Niebuhr supports this argument by quoting that "whosoever seeketh to gain his life will lose it" reinforces my presumption of what the author is trying to get across (Christian Ethics 245). If mankind cannot accept that Jesus came to earth and died for our sins, even the sin of not showing agape love to all, and rather seeks to work toward this ideal, then mankind is only succeeding in destroying the progression of our race. Ultimately Reinhold Niebuhr is offering Christians peace of mind in their daily lives through his essay. Should it be that we question our salvation because we do not possess sacrificial love, we can take comfort in the fact that it is not necessary for our salvation.
By showing the distinct separation between two opposing world views and offering textual and biblical facts to support his argument that sacrificial love is impossible, Reinhold Niebuhr is able to, rather successfully, offer one more piece of literature proclaiming the necessity of faith and repentance alone for salvation. On a more personal note, I feel more at ease knowing that no matter what I do I will not be able to successfully love my neighbor as myself and that it is not so much that we must but more so that we should try.