Relationship

Good relationships in all areas of our lives are essential to our physical and emotional health but we seem to always have more trouble rather than achieving them. Many people seem to believe that fundamental differences: of personality, opinion and interests are important factors in creating a strong and long-lasting relationship and that we are more likely to seek for qualities missing in ourselves from our partner or friend. However, this can be argued because these differences can also cause other form of difficulties in a relationship. This, therefore, leads us to the question: Do fundamental differences do more good than bad in a relationship?
It is undeniable to say that every individual is different and unique and being a man or a woman differ is so many different ways both physically and mentally. The differences in personality and perspective make one become attractive to another. These dissimilarities can be such an intriguing topic to begin a conversation when two people start to know each other for example a British man could find an Asian lady very attractive for her looks and interesting for such different culture and way of thinking or doing certain things. Therefore in the first few months of knowing each other and learning different lifestyle would be a totally incredible experience and later on it can be more or less used to spice up the relationship once in a while.
On the other hand, it is still widely believed that similarities are as equally vital in order to maintain a healthy relationship. There are a lot of people who have split up for the fact that “we don’t have anything in common.” which means people also want to be with someone who can share same interests and tend to agree on doing same sort of things. When asking newlyweds or couples who have been together for a long time: What is the main contributing factor to make their relationship last?, most of them would say “Because we get along with everything and we have a lot of