In any marriage, it is important for the wife to feel secured, loved, and to receive sexual gratification to maintain a strong commitment to her husband. Unfortunately, in Kate Chopin's "The Storm," Calixta does not receive all of these things from her husband Bobinot. Calixta's husband Bobinot lacks a sense of power and control in their marriage and also leaves her feeling sexually frustrated. Calixta's encounter with Alcee Laballiere also reminds her of her dull marriage and the passion her and Alcee has once shared. Because of the unfulfillment of her marriage to Bobinot, Calixta is driven to commit adultery with Alcee.…
social destiny" (Huxley, 16). By making people "like" what they were made to do keeps the people from retaliating against the Government. I thought this was an interesting quote by the Director because you can't really "condition" someone to be truly happy.…
John Krumboltz once said, “You have control over your own actions and how you think about the events that impact your life. None us can control the outcomes, but your actions can increase the probability that desired outcomes will occur. There are no guarantees in life. The only guarantee is that doing nothing will get you nowhere.” (Krumboltz, 46). In this short exert from his book titled Luck is no Accident, 10 Ways to get More out of Work and Life, Krumbolz discusses the importance of making the most out of opportunities that may seem little or pointless, and that happiness doesn’t depend on any external conditions, but instead, it is governed by our mental attitude. Throughout my life, I have only had a few jobs because I didn’t start working until I was almost 18, but I have always strived to have the best attitude when working. My first job ever was at Coldstone Creamery, and there were many times that I had to deal with people that were rude and inconsiderate. Krumbolz talks about controlling what you can, and letting go of what you can’t, which is exactly what I tried doing when working there and dealing with these kinds of people.…
The novel tells us that the fear of failure is the greatest obstacle to happiness. “There is only one thing that makes a dream impossible to achieve: the fear of failure.” So often we hide behind excuses of not being able to do this or that, but the real story is that we are too afraid to take a chance. It is our fear of failing or looking foolish in front of others that keeps us from being who we want to be.…
In the world today, it has been said that having a successful life and a career will make you happy. Moreover, longitudinal studies shows that happiness precedes as well as follows success and many of the effects of positive emotions were parallel by experimental research that induced positive affect in well-controlled studies positive emotions seem to build people’s intellectual, psychological, and social resources that contribute to enhanced happiness, as well. Having success in life is an enjoyable thing when it is involving happiness with positive behaviors. It’s like enjoying something every day, every week, and waking up just to go to work. Have you known somebody, or maybe you have done this yourself, always complain about going to work, or don’t…
There were multiple positive effects of the American Industrialization. For example, a technology that came out of the Industrial Revolution was mass production caused work to be cheaper because they didn't need to pay skilled artisans to make the clothes and the machines made the clothes faster. Another reason is how it created thousands of jobs, because there were the need for less skilled workers and thousands of people to run and check that the machines are working properly. The factories also improved the lives of multiple people by making the fancier products cheaper and more affordable for almost all classes of life this let the common man be able to have more luxuries. The American Industrialization had many positive and negative…
The Les Brown video called Day 1 Psychology of Success is a very motivational and inspiring lecture. Everything Les Brown talks about seems to open up your mind and makes wonder about anything and everything. Listening to his lecture has got me thinking about what I really want in life and in my career. Therefore, I will be letting you know about my ideas about the video.…
Humans over a period of time become selfish, greedy, and uncaring. But if you strip a man of all these things, you get something truly remarkable. The result is the pure innocent hearts and minds of mankind’s most honorable group, the child. In “What Happened During the Ice Storm” a short story by Jem Henyen, we find several farm boys covering a group of pheasants with their jackets in a selfless act of kindness. It’s an icy storm winter and the adults are fending for themselves; it’s the children who end up being the bigger people by tending to the chickens by providing comfort with the warmth of their jackets. The boys are in a time of innocence, a time before adulthood and responsibility where the world is fair, greed isn’t a word, and be it man or chicken, in their pure little hearts they both deserve warm jackets.…
One must wonder if the "war on drugs" helps or hinders our American Criminal Justice System when you look at the overwhelming impact it has had on crowding issues within our prisons. At the present time there are over 1.5 million people in prison, 59.6 % for drug offenses alone.…
There are many stereotypes in our life, most of us follow it without any thinking. Sometimes, we do not think about what is we follow in our lives, is it good or not? One just spends a time and wishes to achieve the minimum of success. However, there are other people break those stereotypes and achieve the success in their life. Also, their ways of thinking change a lot of things in person’s future. For example, Sharman Alexie and Edwige Danticate.…
the study of, or exposure to, philosophy. (For it is clearly not only those who…
Do you know someone rich and famous? Is he confident, popular, and joyful all of the time—the epitome of mainstream success? Or, on the other hand, is he stressed, having second thoughts about his life choices, and unsure about the meaning of his life? I am willing to be that it is the second one. Mainstream marketing and media have effectively brainwashed our society into accepting a false, even potentially dangerous definition of success. Marketers want us to believe that having lots of money, living in a big house, and owning all of the latest cars, fashions, and technology is the key to happiness, and hence, success. This overstated, falsely advertised myth is hardly ever the case in real life. True success requires respect, appreciation, integrity, and patience—all of which are traits that by human nature are genuinely difficult to attain—especially in the face of modern marketers who relentlessly deceive us, control our thoughts, and usurp our independence in order to increase their bottom line.…
I think that most people try to live in accordance to a well-defined pattern that is fixed by the mass-media. For instance, we have to be good at school, than we should enroll in a prestigious university, get a well-paid job. But despite these seemingly positive directions, there is a number of negatives. All of them can be seen in films. We can notice as young people smoke, drink alcohol, and spend most of their free time partying, as they are too concerned about their appearance, even loose their virginity being very young, then marry but all this just seems to be OK. In real life “Happy ends" do not occur as often as on the TV-screen.…
Finally, failure block monotony. Successful person has closed ears to take advices from others because (s)he thinks that (s)he doesn't need to take a advices so (s)he always repeat the same things.…
Although I agree with this philosophy, there are a lot of people who do not seem to agree with me. They think that there is some sort of shortcut to achieving their goals. Truth is, there is none. If you don’t do anything, then you certainly will not achieve anything.…