Self Assessment

The Human Relations Abilities Assessment Form made me aware of my strengths and weaknesses that I use in human relations. This form gave me a better understanding of myself and made me think of the things that I do that I often don’t think about. The first thing that I discovered was that I have I have good listening skills. The first weakness that I discovered was that I am not conscious of how I express nonverbal messages when I am communicating with others. This is not when dealing with others because I do not want to give people the wrong impression of what I am thinking when communicating. I realized with this form that I doubt myself and do not have very high self-esteem. I tend to let my past failures affect me in a negative way. I worry about the mistakes I have made and sometimes let that get the best of me. I do expect a lot from myself but when I do not succeed the first time that I doubt myself and sometimes do not want to try again. One thing that I am big on is integrity. This assessment gave me positive reinforcement about my integrity. When I commit to something I try my hardest to keep that commitment. I don’t like when some tells me that they are going to do something and don’t do it. I try to always keep my word. I try to be as open and honest as I can be without giving anyone a reason to doubt anything I say. I realized that my relationships with people at home, school, and work do not suffer because of my expressions of anger and impatience. I try not to let things that I cannot control get me angry. This is not to get confused with never getting angry because I don’t believe that there is one person that does not get angry. This assessment helped me discover my actions as a team member. I believe that I am a fair team member and I want everyone to feel comfortable with one another. I don’t like conflict so I love when everyone can get along. I try not to hold grudges against others I believe strongly in forgiveness This assignment was a