322). A man’s bad reputation is his wife’s bad reputation; a man’s disgrace is his wife’s. Therefore, by following these principles, a woman not only avoid her own misfortune, but can also influence her husband on not falling into such traps. Chao feared disgrace for her son and therefore turned to his wife to ensure a different outcome. In chapter 6, Chao focuses on how a daughter-in-law should be obedient to her parent-in-law: “If a daughter-in-law who follows the wishes of her parents-in-law is like an echo and a shadow, how could she not be praised” (pag. 325). Chao is implicitly saying to her son’s wife to listen to her and do as she says. Chao does believe that a woman can and should influence her husband, and her family for that matter, but she first has to properly learn how to do it. “If a wife does not serve her husband, then the proper relationship between men and women and the natural order of things are neglected and destroyed” (pag.
322). A man’s bad reputation is his wife’s bad reputation; a man’s disgrace is his wife’s. Therefore, by following these principles, a woman not only avoid her own misfortune, but can also influence her husband on not falling into such traps. Chao feared disgrace for her son and therefore turned to his wife to ensure a different outcome. In chapter 6, Chao focuses on how a daughter-in-law should be obedient to her parent-in-law: “If a daughter-in-law who follows the wishes of her parents-in-law is like an echo and a shadow, how could she not be praised” (pag. 325). Chao is implicitly saying to her son’s wife to listen to her and do as she says. Chao does believe that a woman can and should influence her husband, and her family for that matter, but she first has to properly learn how to do it. “If a wife does not serve her husband, then the proper relationship between men and women and the natural order of things are neglected and destroyed” (pag.