whether it was good or bad. For example, men that are feminine are stereotyped as gay, and women that are masculine are stereotyped as lesbians. Stereotyping someone can definitely hurt one’s feelings and make them feel unwanted or different. I personally know what it is like to be stereotyped. I am stereotyped on a regular basis because I am a police officer‘s wife. Most people have an emotional response to that. The response ranges from empathy, to distrust, from compassion, to sometimes fear. I do not like to make it known what my husband’s profession is; I never know when someone wants to give their negative opinion of police officers to me. Some people fear the police, while others find comfort and safety. I recently was stereotyped by people that I have been friends with for several years. For the past few years my friends from back home have been renting a houseboat at Dale Hollow, Kentucky. They have not once invited me, which I was finding unusual. This year I finally asked why we were not being invited. Come to find out, since my husband is a police officer people did not want us going. Well, apparently someone on the trip smokes marijuana and thought that we would have a problem with it. We were stereotyped before we ever got a chance. I’m sure my husband would not have appreciated someone lighting up in front of him, but I’m sure it would not have been an issue.
whether it was good or bad. For example, men that are feminine are stereotyped as gay, and women that are masculine are stereotyped as lesbians. Stereotyping someone can definitely hurt one’s feelings and make them feel unwanted or different. I personally know what it is like to be stereotyped. I am stereotyped on a regular basis because I am a police officer‘s wife. Most people have an emotional response to that. The response ranges from empathy, to distrust, from compassion, to sometimes fear. I do not like to make it known what my husband’s profession is; I never know when someone wants to give their negative opinion of police officers to me. Some people fear the police, while others find comfort and safety. I recently was stereotyped by people that I have been friends with for several years. For the past few years my friends from back home have been renting a houseboat at Dale Hollow, Kentucky. They have not once invited me, which I was finding unusual. This year I finally asked why we were not being invited. Come to find out, since my husband is a police officer people did not want us going. Well, apparently someone on the trip smokes marijuana and thought that we would have a problem with it. We were stereotyped before we ever got a chance. I’m sure my husband would not have appreciated someone lighting up in front of him, but I’m sure it would not have been an issue.