In our society there is a understanding that what happens in the family stays in the family. Therefore even the polices are afraid to interfere. The families hesitate to externalize it because they are afraid of bad reputations. They don’t want to dechiper it. Violence has a contagious side so it is cover by the families to stop it for getting serious. When it is covered, the perpetrators don’t understand the power of the victims. Violence is a act that is applied by the stonger ones to the weaker ones. To feel the weaknesness and the desperation of the weaker ones, provokes the violence. Actually it is a though situation for the perpetrators too. The perpetrator should be examined because getting some help can relax them.
For example, a girl and a boy’s mother is being exposed to violence by their father,how does the situation affect the children? It affects them differently. First of when it is examined, it is seen that the perpetrator had exposed to violence in the past. For some cases, the perpetrator identifies with their perpetrators. However for some cases, it damages the witness and cause depression and anxiety. Or it causes not physical